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  • Sep 7, 2013, 09:54 PM
    Bandnerd_cheer
    Is a 13 year old girl too young for a 15 year old boy?
    I just turned 13; the boy I like turned 15 four months ago. He likes me too,but I'm just worried that it's too big of an age difference. I have not talked to my parents about it; Im just wondering what y'all think!:)
  • Sep 7, 2013, 09:59 PM
    Wondergirl
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Bandnerd_cheer View Post
    No,but it is illegal to have sex.

    Why did you answer your own question?
  • Sep 8, 2013, 06:30 AM
    Homegirl 50
    Wasn't this question deleted earlier?
    At 13 you are too young to date and he should not even be interested in you. He's in High School and you're in Middle School.
    Ask your parents what they think of this.
  • Sep 8, 2013, 06:37 AM
    N0help4u
    Even if 13-15 is acceptable. 15-17 is not and 14- 16 is very questionable.
  • Sep 8, 2013, 08:43 AM
    ScottGem
    Before asking an online site, ask your parents. They are the ones to determine if you can date.

    In my opinion 13 is too young to date one on one or have a boyfriend. Also a 2 year difference at this point is on the edge of a reasonable gap.

    And why did you answer your own question?
  • Sep 10, 2013, 03:19 PM
    Aace82nd
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by N0help4u View Post
    Even if 13-15 is acceptable. 15-17 is not and 14- 16 is very questionable.

    What's the difference between 14-16 and 15-17
  • Sep 10, 2013, 03:21 PM
    Wondergirl
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Aace82nd View Post
    whats the difference between 14-16 and 15-17

    Maturity (at least one year's worth)
  • Sep 10, 2013, 04:53 PM
    Alty
    Bottom line, at 13, even at 15, it's up to the parents. If your parents say no, you can't date him. If his parents say no, he can't date you. You both need parental permission to date. Just to be clear, dating does not mean sex, even your parents can't give you permission for that, that depends on the legal age of consent where you live.
  • Sep 18, 2013, 12:32 PM
    louise1928
    Honestly, if you think its okay and your parents are cool with it who cares?
  • Sep 18, 2013, 12:49 PM
    ScottGem
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by louise1928 View Post
    honestly, if you think its okay and your parents are cool with it who cares?

    That's the big key. And since the OP hasn't talked to her parents she should do so immediately.
  • Sep 18, 2013, 01:23 PM
    N0help4u
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Aace82nd View Post
    whats the difference between 14-16 and 15-17

    The law. If a minor or their parents want to file a police complaint no matter how untrue it could get messy.

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