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  • Sep 6, 2013, 09:27 PM
    kayladeep
    My insecurity
    I love my girl with my all, I keep on trying to get her back and last night she said her heart is dead, she doesn't have the feelings for and I tried kissing her thinking that the feelings will come back.

    She even gave me back my ring for I asked her a hand in marriage 20 days ago.

    Can someone please help me.

    What do I do in this case?

    >email address removed per site rules<

    Thanking you in advance.
  • Sep 6, 2013, 09:41 PM
    odinn7
    There isn't much you can do. If she doesn't love you, you can't make her love you.
  • Sep 6, 2013, 09:46 PM
    kayladeep
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by odinn7 View Post
    There isn't much you can do. If she doesn't love you, you can't make her love you.

    But I really love her and want to fix things with her...

    Does this mean that I should just let all that 9 months go to waste?

    I have never for a chance cheated on her and my only problem was being open to her
    But I have seen my mistakes, if only she can give me a chance just to show her how much I have changed.
  • Sep 6, 2013, 09:51 PM
    Alty
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by kayladeep View Post
    But I really love her and wanna fix things with her....

    Does this mean that I should just let all that 9 months go to waste?

    I have never for a chance cheated on her and my only problem was being open to her
    But I have seen my mistakes, if only she can give me a chance just to show her how much I have changed.

    Only she can choose to give you a chance, and it sounds like she's done. You can't force someone to love you, no matter how much you love them.

    Nine months is nothing. Some people spend years, even decades, with someone, only to have the relationship fail.

    Heartbreak is something everyone experiences at least once. You have to go on with your life, and get over her. Not easy, but that's your only choice.
  • Sep 6, 2013, 09:51 PM
    odinn7
    Well, we haven't seen what happened... we don't know the situation. All I can say is that generally, when they say that, it's over.

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