Need answers my husband don't have any problems getting hard but right when we start he goes limp what can be wrong he gets upset

Have you seen a doctor about this?

How does he masturbate? Death grip or 'normal'?

What is his life life? Stress? Exhaustion levels? Drug/alcohol use? Weight? Disease?

Could you provide more information?

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Originally Posted by CravenMorhead

Have you seen a doctor about this?

How does he masturbate? Death grip or 'normal'?

What is his life life? Stress? Exhaustion levels? Drug/alcohol use? Weight? Disease?

Could you provide more information?

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Yes we have went to the dr his prostate is enlarged and he has been a little stress but I have problems thinking he is not into me anymore and he says I'm wrong we got back to the dr in a few weeks to find out blood work

As soon as you start the "he is not into me" now he has stress and issues about his performance and this stress only makes it work.

With an enlarged prostate he is lucky to even get hard. I was there and know that one. My prostate was even worst. But after treatment I can perform again. So an enlarged prostate can stop an erection very easy. Plus stress, easy to lose it, add your additional stress of, not being into you, that is the fastest and easiest way to stop his performance.

What you should have been doing, it is OK, I understand, lets just see the doctor, not trying to blame him for not loving you enough. God sake, you want to make sure he will not ever get hard with you.

You did not address medication he may be taking, many high blood pressure pills will hurt erections also. You did not address drinking and masturbation all of which can effect.

Also his age. I will be honest at HUMM, lets say almost 60, it sometimes takes help from a pill to hold an erection. So how old is he ?

You need to address your own problem that its about YOU, when everything points to other things.

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Originally Posted by talaniman

You need to address your own problem that its about YOU, when everything points to other things.

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It's not all about me I'm there for him and making app. Going to the dr with him
My husband is 39 and a while back he was emailing someone on Craig's list that was 25 so yes I have a trust issue too so don't blame me by saying its all about me cause its not

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Originally Posted by Fr_Chuck

as soon as you start the "he is not into me" now he has stress and issues about his performance and this stress only makes it work.

with an enlarged prostate he is lucky to even get hard. I was there and know that one. My prostate was even worst. But after treatment I can perform again. So an enlarged prostate can stop an erection very easy. Plus stress, easy to lose it, add your additional stress of, not being into you, that is the fastest and easiest way to stop his performance.

What you should have been doing, it is ok, I understand, lets just see the doctor, not trying to blame him for not loving you enough. God sake, you want to make sure he will not ever get hard with you.

You did not address medication he may be taking, many high blood pressure pills will hurt erections also. you did not address drinking and masturbation all of which can effect.

Also his age. I will be honest at HUMM, lets say almost 60, it sometimes takes help from a pill to hold an erection. So how old is he ?

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My husband is 39 yes I am there for him I make his app. To the dr I also go with him too I am very understanding I hate to see him mad cause this happens every time and he says he don't understand why

Of course he doesn't know why. But he has to look for the answer, and address it with knowledge and a doctor is a good first step. This will take time and work so don't add to his stress with assumptions and wild speculation by either of you.