I had an unwanted abortion on aug 16 due to my baby having serious abnormalities, and I want another baby, but my boyfriend claims not to be ready but no protection nor controceptives are being used. 2-3 days after my abortion my boyfriend and I started trying but he's pulled out every time, how concerned should I be with being pregnant because my bleeding stopped automatically!

You are having sex 2 or 3 days after an abortion ? Sorry, are you crazy ?
A lot more issues than pregnancy. Infections, physcial harm, you need to talk to your doctor before you have sex again.

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Originally Posted by Fr_Chuck

you are having sex 2 or 3 days after an abortion ? sorry, are you crazy ?
A lot more issues than pregnancy. Infections, physcial harm, you need to talk to your doctor before you have sex again.

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I have I'm in good conditions I've checked. Bt at the same time not saying it was the best idea bt we weren't thinking we were more less still in denial. But thanks for your feed back!

If the baby that you aborted had serious abnormalities, does your doctor think it is wise for you to be pregnant at all. Did you discuss this possibility with him?

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Originally Posted by tickle

If the baby that you aborted had serious abnormalities, does your doctor think it is wise for you to be pregnant at all. Did you discuss this possibility with him?

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Yes it was a rare chromosome disorder that happens 1out of maybe 100 so I was told it may never happen to us again.

I don't know if there is scientific basis for this theory, but I believe that a second pregnancy too soon after an abortion can result in a miscarriage. Your body took a jolt to it's regular cycles of very complicated endocrine patterns. Let it get back to normal, at least a few months.

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Originally Posted by Neenee12

Yes it was a rare chromosome disorder that happens 1out of maybe 100 so I was told it may never happen to us again.

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Good ! I wish you luck!