Originally Posted by
tickle
You don't have to use google plus or facebook if you don't want to. If people are inviting you to their circles, then you have subscribed to and set up a profile to use google plus; they have read it and feel they like you. If your deceased daughter is in your 'circle' it isn't through google plus, so don't worry about it. If you have not set up, joined, added your pic, done a profile, then they'd dont know you.
Of course, all of the above only if i understand your post correctly, including the part about your deceased daughter, with all due respect.