I am a college student, I go to school full-time, and work full-time. I am trying to apply for a part-time job during the weekends and holidays. I currently have no financial issues, but it would be nice to have some extra money for emergencies. A few days ago I decided to look on craigslist and various other websites offering job openings. Later on throughout the night I went into the adult section of craigslist. I clicked on the "men seeking women" section. I haven't responded to any post the, but I have clicked on a few of them. I never online date and I don't feel comfortable meeting people off the web in person.

Some of guys posting on there just want to text back and forth or email. Some of them are willing to pay for in person encounters and they're detailed and make it clear what they want. A few of the guys do upload pictures of themselves and other things... but I'm not sure if that's actually them in the photo.

Should I feel disgusted with myself?

Craigslist is not the place to find a date. If you want to find someone online, use a reputable dating service... and even then you need to be pretty careful.

So you want to sell yourself for extra money, is that what you're saying?
And Craigslist! Do you know how dangerous that could be and illegal to say the least.
I would be disgusted with myself if I even entertained the thought.
You say you don't feel comfortable meeting people off the web and you don't date yet you are looking in to this. Makes no sense to me at all.

Oh please everybody. No need to feel disgusted with yourself for being curious. If you cross the line into action, or become obsessed with looking, sure.

You shouldn't be disgusted with yourself at all. Almost everybody feels lonely and interested sometimes and are curious but definitely not on craigslist I would go for somewhere like match.com or sites like that.. my mum went on match.com and is now in a happy relationship so I may be being biast but still make sure your careful if you do meet up with people but I guess that's the case with everything!
I don't think you were saying you wanted to sell yourself for money.. but if you were Don't I cannot state how important it is that you don't.. you can find great guys who like you and not only your body and there free..

I know your brain feels all confused and your heart hurts but don't give up :)x

As odinn7 said tread carefully with Craigslist. Plus think about it, you're a full time student and worker. Concentrate on those things and you will meet someone naturally, which is way more fun.

She said she is looking for extra money, not a date. It's not something I would do or think about, but to each his/her own. As long as you are not seriously considering it. Especially since you say you don't really need the money.

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Originally Posted by Homegirl 50

She said she is looking for extra money, not a date. It's not something I would do or think about, but to each his/her own. As long as you are not seriously considering it. Especially since you say you don't really need the money.

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You see, the way she worded her question, I wasn't completely sure that's what she wanted. Then you answered it and it seemed to make more sense so I believe you are correct.

To be honest though, I just read it again and I am still not sure as she never comes out and says exactly what she's looking for. Another cryptic question.

Well if she does want to date, Craig list is the last place one should look