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After I had had sex with my girlfriend I had taken my penis out from her vagina (had a condom on) and once I had ejected my penis there was this white fluid line that had stretched out to be at least 3-4 inches. I am unsure if it was her or I?? Please help...

How old are you?

I'm 20 years of age. After I ejaculated I kept it in from 30 more seconds (with condom of course) after that I had taken my penis out and there was this white line of fluid about 3-4 inches, it was a blue light in my room so I could not determine if it was mine or hers. I'm freaking out...

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Originally Posted by scaredd12

I'm 20 years of age. After I ejaculated i kept it in from 30 more seconds (with condom of course) after that I had taken my penis out and there was this white line of fluid about 3-4 inches, it was a blue light in my room so i could not determine if it was mine or hers. im freaking out.....

Perhaps you should wait to have sex until you know how all of it works.

You expect us to tell you if it was her or you? How? We weren't there!

A woman is lubricated during sex. It could have been her lubrication. Sperm is also consistent with what you're describing, and condoms are the least reliable form of birth control on the market, so it's possible this fluid was your sperm.

Without running tests, it would be impossible to tell you where this fluid came from.

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Originally Posted by teacherjenn4

How old are you?

I'm 20 years of age. After I ejaculated I kept it in from 30 more seconds (with condom of course) after that I had taken my penis out and there was this white line of fluid about 3-4 inches, it was a blue light in my room so I could not determine if it was mine or hers. I'm freaking out...

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Originally Posted by odinn7

Perhaps you should wait to have sex until you know how all of it works.

Not helpful at all, but thanks for the diss...

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Originally Posted by scaredd12

I'm 20 years of age. After I ejaculated i kept it in from 30 more seconds (with condom of course) after that I had taken my penis out and there was this white line of fluid about 3-4 inches, it was a blue light in my room so i could not determine if it was mine or hers. im freaking out.....

Well, you should be scared. As Alty said, it could be yours or it could be hers. You'll have to wait and see what happens.

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Originally Posted by scaredd12

I'm 20 years of age. After I ejaculated i kept it in from 30 more seconds (with condom of course) after that I had taken my penis out and there was this white line of fluid about 3-4 inches, it was a blue light in my room so i could not determine if it was mine or hers. im freaking out.....

Yeah, yeah... we got that already.

So you're just messing with us, right?

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Originally Posted by odinn7

Yeah, yeah....we got that already.

So you're just messing with us, right?

Why would I joke about this?? This is my first time to this site. I needed to get some answers, so I searched online for hours for a site

Well, as was already said, we can't tell you what it was. None of us were there (as far as you know)... we didn't see it... we didn't touch it... we don't know what it was. It could have been her. It could have been you. It could have been lube from the condom.

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Originally Posted by scaredd12

Not helpful at all, but thanks for the diss...

So how can we help? Tell us what you think we can do online? How are we supposed to answer your question?

How long shall I wait until I can know for sure?

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Originally Posted by scaredd12

Why would I joke about this????? This is my first time to this site. I needed to get some answers, so I searched online for hours for a site

Sigh.

We gave you answers. But we can only guess, that's all anyone can do. We can't tell you what this was. You were there and you don't know what it was!

If you're obsessed about finding out, pay someone to test it. That will determine if it's sperm, or vaginal fluid, or something else. Did you take a sample?

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Originally Posted by scaredd12

How long shall I wait until I can know for sure?

Know what? What are you waiting to know?

This is a site, we use written communication here. We can't test samples, we can't tell you what a liquid is because we can't see it or test it. We can't even tell you if you're male or female, black or white, tall or short, fat or thin.

We can only go by what you post. We can't magically determine what a stringy liquid is during one of your sexual encounters. We also can't guess what you're waiting to find out for sure.

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Originally Posted by scaredd12

How long shall I wait until I can know for sure?

So you're concerned that the condom broke or leaked, correct?

If that is the case, you will need to see if she gets her next period.

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Originally Posted by odinn7

So you're concerned that the condom broke or leaked, correct?

If that is the case, you will need to see if she gets her next period.

Ah! That's what he's wanting to know.

Okay, wait until her next period. If it's late she needs to wait until it's at least 2 weeks late, then take a home pregnancy test using first morning urine. If that test is negative, wait for the next period, and if it's late test again or get a blood test. If it's positive, congrats daddy and mommy.

Was the condom even on correctly ? So many uses put it on tight and do not leave room at the end for the fluids. This is major cause of failure. But condoms fail, they have a 3 to 18 percent chance of failure ( information from Planned Parenthood)

Many times you will never see the failure.

So many using a condom just reduces chance of pregnancy, there is still a chance.

So if you are worried about pregnancy, it is now a waiting game, you wait to see if she gets her period next month