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  • Aug 21, 2013, 08:13 AM
    rj49
    Signs of abnormal relationship daughter and dad
    Please help, I am dating a man that has a 32 year old step daughter he raised since she was 3 years old. Her mother has passed. I am now seeing picture's she is always sending her dad , she has only her two piece bathing suit on. I find this very odd. The only person I would send a shot like that is my man, not my dad. Is this normal?
  • Aug 21, 2013, 08:20 AM
    odinn7
    Are those the only pictures she sends him? Do you have any reason to believe anything is going on other than simple pictures in a bikini?
  • Aug 21, 2013, 11:39 PM
    rj49
    She sends him very off color jokes and only photo's in her suit. Why would she do that? I don't think anything is going on but asking if this is normal to send your dad this type of picture. She isn't 10 she is in her 30's.
  • Aug 22, 2013, 03:24 AM
    N0help4u
    Do they ever spend time together? If so how do they act toward each other when they are together? How long have you been with him?
  • Aug 22, 2013, 03:50 AM
    joypulv
    It's normal if it just happens that she was in a bikini one day or two. The jokes, who knows. I shared many jokes with my dad, and a few were a bit raunchy. I don't see how we strangers online can envision the whole picture. And I think it's dangerous to make any assumptions about what might be abnormal.
  • Aug 22, 2013, 04:55 AM
    N0help4u
    It would be helpful for the OP to come back and let us know more. It sounds like the pictures are ongoing and not one or two days. Also were the pictures on a vacation at the beach or her own room where she could have dressed more appropriately.
  • Aug 22, 2013, 05:14 AM
    Jake2008
    I would hold the negative assumptions about alluding to an inappropriate sexually perceived relationship between a man and his daughter (no matter what the age), simply based on pictures of her in a two piece bathing suit.

    And what has been discussed about these pictures, and are there any other examples of behavior to back up your thoughts on their relationship?

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