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  • Aug 19, 2013, 07:13 PM
    losa
    Pregnancy scare , please take the time to read that
    Hi everyone I hope I can get some help here ,ill understand if someone makes fun of me but I'm really worried , so I messed around with my boyfriend yesterday , there was no intercourse and he did not ejaculate while we were "touching and rubing" but I don't know about precum as its hard to detect ,anyway I had my period today like I would normaly that time of the month (I have my period every 32 not 28days) Is there anyy chance of me being pregnant ? I mean I know some of you will think I'm crazy . But I read on the net about how having your period doesn't mean you're not pregnant especially if stuff happened the days just before ,and how precum contains sperm and how intercourse isn't needed to get pregnant,so please help ? I don't want to flip for 32 days :(
  • Aug 19, 2013, 07:25 PM
    smoothy
    Hate to tell you... you are going to have to flip... the odds are low... but they aren't zero.

    If you manage to not be this time... doesn't mean the next time you won't.
  • Aug 19, 2013, 07:36 PM
    Wondergirl
    Smoothy's right. Anytime you mess around like you were, there IS a chance you can get pregnant. The odds might be small, but (remembering those days myself), in the heat of the moment, you lose track of who was doing what where and when.

    Now you're going to have to wait until you get your next period. If you get it, great! You're probably okay. If you don't get it, wait two more weeks and then do an hpt with first urine of the morning.

    Women's cycles vary so much, even each woman as to fertile days, Scientists are finding that there are NO safe days. Those wiggly little sperm want to get to an egg, and if you give them half a chance, they will do their level best to achieve that goal. They can live 3-5 days,so be very, very careful. If you don't want this kind of worry, you know what to do (or NOT do), right?
  • Aug 20, 2013, 01:05 AM
    joypulv
    Odds/chances/probabilities are that you are not pregnant - based on what you say here. But remember that odds are meaningless if you fall into that less than 1% (or whatever it might be). You are then 100% pregnant, even if the other 10,000 women doing the same thing didn't get pregnant.

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