Do married men have wet dreams? Wet dreams of another femal other than their wife?
If so, why?
(maybe it's a silly question but I'm curious ;) )

Honestly,

I do not remember having a wet dream since I was married. It happens more when you're a teenager but not as an older person.

As far as having dreams about other people, I think everybody has different dreams about different people. If so, why? I do not know. Good question. If people could control their dreams. Lol

Joe

Well I know someone who had a wet dream, he is married and in his 30's!

I found it hysterical... lol but my friend who is married to this man didn't so much :p

I hope she is going to let it go. It is not like he can control his dream.

He should have kept it quiet, maybe hard too. Or just say he was dreaming about her, ooops if he did not mention any other names.

OMG what a pickle.

Joe

I was just intrgued though, as I thought only horny teenage boys have wet dreams, guess I was wrong!

My fiancé has had a wet dream when he was 27!
Mmm, what does that mean?

Are there any married men at AMHD that experienced this?

It doesn't mean anything. Plenty of older married men have wet dreams. Wet dreams do not have to be accompanied by erotic dreaming. Please don't read anything into your partner having a wet dream.

Who's partner?

Whoever may come to this thread worrying about their partner having a wet dream...

I hope we get plenty of posts :D

Well, Krs, although you know I am not a man and I am of the "other persuasion", men of all ages have wet dreams. Very often, when they are teens, on occasion when they are married, quite a lot if they are married and unhappy with their sex lives. Women have wet dreams too you know. Those don't usually start until they are sexually experienced. If women who are very sexually experienced and claim not to have them AT ALL, then either they just don't remember the dreams or they don't enjoy sex. Your friend is definitely overreacting. Tell her, "so what?" Happens on occasion to everyone. The guy is dreaming, not screwing around on her. He was comfortable enough to discuss it with her. She needs to relax. If it freaks him out, then there is a problem. Otherwise, she is being jealous over an unknown quantity. How silly is that?

I know.
I said to her, we can't control our dreams LOL.
She said but it wasn't her in the dream...
So I said again we can't control our dreams...

Exactly. Here's what you do, get a couple of those Heinekens you have there and have her suck a few down. Make sure you are in a bar with some decent looking guys while you are doing it. Make some comments and suggestions about each one of them to her. "Gee, I wonder how that bloke is in the sack?" or "I wouldn't kick that one out of bed" or "Mmmm, young boys, yum yum" or "He looks like he is packing something worth using",. whatever it takes to make her laugh and get her to do the same. Joke around and get her mindset right. Maybe she will have a dream of her own and the score will be tied. :p

If a man doesn't ejaculate for awhile, the body has to get rid of the accumulated sperm. Delicious wet dreams are God's reward for not masturbating or having sex. Often, it's worth the wait.

OG, I am shocked! Those are the first abbynormal words I have ever "heard" you utter. Is someone else posting on this forum and using your name? :eek:

I guess that explains why I never have wet dreams. Oooops did I say that out loud.

Joe

I don't think it matters if you are married or not, I'm sure that if us guys leave it long enough without sex or some kind of ummmm, relief so to speak, eventually a dream of that sort will happen regardless of age..

Haven't had a wet dream since I was a teen-ager, let me check with my wife to be sure.

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Originally Posted by RubyPitbull

OG, I am shocked! Those are the first abbynormal words I have ever "heard" you utter. Is someone else posting on this forum and using your name? :eek:

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I don't understand. What is it that you think is abbynormal about what I wrote? And besides, how do you know abby is normal? LOL