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  • Aug 14, 2013, 06:08 AM
    anon97
    Blackmail
    So I sent a man a bra pucture of me and my face was in the picture, now he's blackmailing me to do stuff or he's going to send it on social networking sites what do I do?
  • Aug 14, 2013, 06:39 AM
    N0help4u
    Tell him that you aren't that stupid to send your own pic so you googled a bunch of images until you found that one. Or have you already complied to his blackmail demands?
  • Aug 14, 2013, 06:42 AM
    anon97
    I would but I used a camera app on kik and he knows I'm real and not a fake :/
  • Aug 14, 2013, 06:47 AM
    J_9
    How old are you? How old is he?
  • Aug 14, 2013, 07:05 AM
    N0help4u
    If he is blackmailing you for more pics you realize in the end when Its all said and done he can post it all. You need to find a way to turn this around or report it to someone.
  • Aug 14, 2013, 07:44 AM
    Fr_Chuck
    He will post it anyway at some point, that is risk of sending photos online, I will guess or assume it is naked photos.

    You report him to the police for blackmail, ( this is best)
    Or you stop any contact with them, and if they post anything, report to police
  • Aug 14, 2013, 08:05 AM
    odinn7
    If it's a picture of you in a bra, then it is not that bad. Do you think if you send more revealing pictures at his command that this won't just keep continuing? Now he will have nude pics of you to threaten you with. Tell him to stuff it... and report him if he continues.

    However, if you are underage, the advice changes a little. It would help to know your age and the general area that you live in.
  • Aug 14, 2013, 08:59 AM
    anon97
    I understand what I did was completely stupid and I honestly tjought he liked me. I'm 16, and just adding a bit more information he not asking for nudes he's asking for an online relationship and a sexting buddy which I feel unvomfortable with but also because I shouldn't have sent the pic which clearly means its all my fault this is happening

    He's not blackmailing me gor more pics he's asking for a relationship and a sexting buddy :/

    Quote:

    Originally Posted by J_9 View Post
    How old are you? How old is he?

    I know its wrong what I did but its hard to explain I genuinely thought he liked me, I'm 16, he's 19

    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Fr_Chuck View Post
    he will post it anyway at some point, that is risk of sending photos online, I will guess or assume it is naked photos.

    You report him to the police for blackmail, ( this is best)
    or you stop any contact with them, and if they post anything, report to police

    How am I supposed to report it, its my own fault and all I know he lives in england
  • Aug 14, 2013, 09:05 AM
    N0help4u
    Never assume 'thought he liked me' with internet. What state do you live in because in some States he can get in trouble not only blackmailing but also corrupting morals of a minor, depending on your state law.
  • Aug 14, 2013, 09:11 AM
    anon97
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by N0help4u View Post
    Never assume 'thought he liked me' with internet. What state do you live in because in some States he can get in trouble not only blackmailing but also corrupting morals of a minor, depending on your state law.

    I know I did wrong and I live in england too.
  • Aug 14, 2013, 09:16 AM
    N0help4u
    Life is full of lessons. You got to figure out where to go from here
  • Aug 14, 2013, 09:20 AM
    anon97
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by N0help4u View Post
    Life is full of lessons. You got to figure out where to go from here

    I agree but honestly I'm just wonderring if I've made a dumb desicision by blocking him and thank you for your help
  • Aug 14, 2013, 09:35 AM
    N0help4u
    Blocking is good. Just watch your pic doesn't show up anywhere
  • Aug 14, 2013, 12:30 PM
    anon97
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by N0help4u View Post
    Blocking is good. Just watch your pic doesnt show up anywhere

    Okay and thank you for your advise

    I know this is in the question section, but thank you to every one who tried helping me out today... 15/08/2013
  • Aug 14, 2013, 04:52 PM
    N0help4u
    Be strong and don't let things get to you. Time has a way of working things out if you go for your goals and don't let things be an obstetrical. You can learn to handle your emotions.
  • Aug 14, 2013, 05:08 PM
    teacherjenn4
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by N0help4u View Post
    Be strong and don't let things get to you. Time has a way of working things out if you go for your goals and don't let things be an obstetrical. You can learn to handle your emotions.

    Obstetrical? Don't you mean an obstacle?
  • Aug 14, 2013, 05:19 PM
    anon97
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by N0help4u View Post
    Be strong and don't let things get to you. Time has a way of working things out if you go for your goals and don't let things be an obstetrical. You can learn to handle your emotions.


    Thank you and it honestly means a lot to have gotten help from you today thank you :)
  • Aug 14, 2013, 05:20 PM
    anon97
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by teacherjenn4 View Post
    obstetrical? Don't you mean an obstacle?

    Its just a misspelling no big deal
  • Aug 14, 2013, 05:30 PM
    N0help4u
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by teacherjenn4 View Post
    obstetrical? Don't you mean an obstacle?

    Yeah my auto INcorrect cell phone changes words
  • Aug 14, 2013, 05:31 PM
    anon97
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by n0help4u View Post
    yeah my auto incorrect cell phone changes words


    Its fine :) its not big deal

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