Anyone's opinion is welcome :)

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Originally Posted by alanalov

Anyone's opinion is welcome :)

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I like an outgoing girl if it is for real but one that is as fake as a three dollar bill I hate to even be around. You know the kind I mean, they talk all the time about themselves and things that they have.

Well I'm not a guy, but my fiancé likes me... I guess I'm not outgoing I'm shy. I think to him I was a mystery LOL.

I personally prefer the shyer type, I am shy myself.
But with outgoing females, at least the ones I know, they come off as always wanting attention.

Being a female and having loads of male friends around, I guess what I've gathered is that if u're natural, that attracts the intelligent lot or else with the immature men.. nothing is predictable... no matter what and who u are they will still not like you... so just be yourself and maintain dignity always... that will attract lot of men...

There is a commercial for a new comedy TV show here in the US.
And they sort of say it all in what men look for in a women to go out with

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I am both, be flexible is the key!:) I think guys look more than that, I am just not sure what they really look at, but I think being yourself and be flexible is the key.

I'm an outgoing guy and I look for that in a girl.

But incognito who is shyer, prefers shyer girls. He even thinks that outgoing girls are just looking for attention... which is a strong statement.

From this I've concluded: it depends on the person, so be yourself and don't worry if you are shy or outgoing. (I'm going to elaborate a bit though, because if you want to be more or less outgoing, I'm not saying you can't be).

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The reason I like outgoing girls is because I am someone who does like attention (seems incognito's statement is somewhat true about outgoing people). I have a great sense of humour (not trying to be cocky) and I need a girl that can laugh when I'm pulling out good material. Shy people tend to bore me. I'm also very energetic, athletic and love just doing things, moving around whatever!

Although I used to be very shy for the first 12 years of my life. I seriously hardly spoke and my brother who was 4 years younger was very outgoing and my parents would always compare us to people saying "it's amazing how you can have two kids that are so different, 1 is really shy and the other isn't at all".
It was only when I started refereeing soccer that I was forced to come out of my shell. Since then I've become an excellent public speaker, good with people, I was the president of my high schools student counsel back in Gr.12 and I can often be the center of attention because people tend to have lots more fun (in my opinion) with funny, energetic and outgoing people. That's just my experience.

If you're goal is to be more outgoing then for sure, go for it, because I believe you can do whatever you put your mind to but don't put a burden over your head because people should appreciate your for who are!

I think that a woman who knows what she wants is a big turn on. That doesn't mean dominatrix or whatever, but someone who is outgoing is comfortable with themselves and isn't afraid to express themselves. I like that in friends, as well as a relationship

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Originally Posted by alanalov

Anyone's opinion is welcome :)

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I am a guy and I think that GIRLS are better when they are in school uniform and are outgoing
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Originally Posted by Fr_Chuck

There is a commercial for a new comedy TV show here in the US.
And they sort of say it all in what men look for in a women to go out with

>>>> breathing

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Lol :-)

I am shy (and a woman). My boyfriend seemed always to be trying to get me to be more outgoing, but I think now after seeing each other for almost 9 months, he likes me the way I am. But, I DID try to be a little more outgoing, so maybe that pleased him. I think if the attraction is there, then it shouldn't matter that much if you are shy or outgoing.

I prefer shy girls. Not shy to the point to where they are anxiety stricken and afraid of the world, but just girls that are mostly introverted and soft spoken. I think that it is generally agreed upon that shyness is more of a feminine quality. Outgoing girls are OK if they have a good personality and say interesting, funny things. Otherwise it is just very annoying listening to someone who is a lame *** run their mouth. Shyness is very sexy. Let the guy be the one who is more outgoing and leads the relationship. Men like to be in charge and feel masculine. Women that are very outgoing can sometimes make a man feel a little emasculated.