Girlfriend lied about exes
My girlfriend would talk to her ex's when we first started dating and would surround herself around guys who liked her. When out and about, a few of these guys would tell me how they loved her and one even said he wanted to take her home. She didn't really do anything about this, and unfortunately neither did I aside from telling her how it upset me. She would occasionally see one ex and talk/text with him. Initially, I had no issue with this and even met the guy. However, she then started lying about seeing him and talking to him. He would tell her that he loved and missed her whenever they talked. Over time, I discovered the lies about him and more lies regarding an ex fiancé and guys that liked her. I would explain to her that it was breaking my heart and that I cannot handle her lying to me. She eventually admitted to basically emotionally cheating on me with her ex boyfriend. She would tell these people behind my back that I made her unhappy and that she didn't want to be with me but when around me she acted as though I meant the world to her. She would say that she wanted to get married to me and spend all her time with me. What is going on here??
Why on earth would she have called my mom?
My girlfriend and I officially broke up a few weeks ago. I tried to end it respectfully, but she refused for this to happen. In short, I went to her house to get my belongings (we lived together) and my dog (who she was watching while I was away). She was extremely angry with me for coming there even though she knew I was going to. When I came in to get my dog I noticed her ex-boyfriends things in the house (I was gone for three weeks traveling). I didn't say anything except looked at it and said, "huh." Anyway, she got angry and blew up, I ended up calling the police.
She then blocked me on Instagram, phone number, email, and probably pretty much everything. I don't care about this and I have refused to even want to contact her after her behavior. I then went to lunch with my father downtown. Her and her boyfriend drive by us in his truck, I pretended as though I didn't see them but I could see her boyfriend looking at me out of my peripheral. Before lunch I texted my friend at 1 o'clock that I was with my dad.
I get home at 2 o'clock and my mother asks, why would Jane call me at 1:08? I said I have no idea. My mom apparently called her back later on, leaving a voice mail along the lines of, "Sorry for missing your call Jane. If you need to call back feel free." She then calls my mother back! My mom said she her voice was shaky, she asked if I was staying there, she asked if everything was okay, and she asked if she could maybe call her (meaning my mom) again sometime. My mother also said that she used a lot of 'um' and 'uh' fillers. Why on earth would she have called my mom? Especially considering that she ended it, she acted completely irrational, and she blocked me from absolutely everything?
What is going on?