Hey everyone I was wondering if yous can help me. I know this is most likely not the place for it but its worth a shot. I really like this girl and we have gone out multiply times and had a great time together when we did. I thought when we were out that she had the same way about me but I wasn't sure. I have been nothing but nice to her, I've helped her out so much and thought it was bringing us closer, I have even boughten her some items that will show that I Like her and that I think about her. We text a lot and we talk for along time to when we do. All of the sudden this past week I believe she is now seeing this other person. I don't know what to do since I really like her and can't stop thinking about her. I think about her non stop, I can't get her out of my head. I was wondering if some of yous can help me since I want her to know that I like her but I'm not sure if I should. I don't want to ruin the friendship that we have together. Also the for the past week her phone has been broken and she was using her aunts phone for the day. She decided to text me and we talked for a few hours. While we were talking she said how she had to go looking for my number and it took her a while to find it. She said she was happy and luck that she found it since she wanted to talk to me, and she said thank god she found it so she could talk to me. I think this also shows that she could like me but not sure.

Can someone please help an tell me what I should do or if I should even do anything. I would really appreciate it since I don't know what to do. I really care for this girl but now I found out she has a boyfriend from one of her friends. But she has never mentioned it to me.

She has a boyfriend. She is off limits to you until they break up.

I think she may have a feeling for you and you should disclose your feeling before its too late.
You can never predict what will happen next, the condition can may turn to your side.

I agree with J_9 as if she is with someone then its is a no go area if she likes you but is with someone els then no offence but it can not be that much. And if you break them up to find out I am sorry but you will not be a good person.

Leave her alone. She has a boyfriend.
She is talking to you taking gifts from, can your really trust someone like that? If she wanted to be with you she would. She's not.
Leave the girl alone, stop buying her things and being her toy.

She may like the gifts and attention while having no intention of leaving her boyfriend. You can end up feeling used. Listen to J9.

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Can someone please help an tell me what I should do or if I should even do anything. I would really appreciate it since I don't know what to do. I really care for this girl but now I found out she has a boyfriend from one of her friends. But she has never mentioned it to me.

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I think your next step is to ask her if she has a boyfriend. Friends are not always the most reliable means of getting information. Sometimes they can exaggerate or misinform for their own reasons.

If she is in a relationship, leave her alone.

If there has been a misunderstanding, decide what to do after it is cleared up.

I often wonder how guys and girls can hangout, phone and text for weeks on end and get feelings but no real facts and send themselves through this confusing period of wondering. That's the first thing you find out is if she is available for more than just friendship, and it's a red flag if she wasn't upfront about that in the first place.

Afraid to ask so you don't have to assume? Or rely on a third party to get you in the know? She may see friend but you want more so talk straight and honest and get the facts from her before you give her your heart, or let your feelings of attraction get you stuck on something you may not be able to have.