My boyfriend and I had uproctected sex by mistake,n after I had period pains but still no period.. I am 18 n nt rdy for a kid... I really m scared.. m I pregnant?

My boyfriend and I had unprotected sex by mistake,n after I had period pains but m not on my periods.. wel m only 18 n m nt rdy for a kid.. I'm really scared... can I be pregnant??

Nobody accidentally has sex, or by mistake... it happens on purpose because two people wanted it... and if both didn't want it... then its rape..

And yeah... you might be pregnant but you are going to have to wait and sweat a while before its time to take a test... which is at least two weeks after you are late. Right after you wake up and the first time you pee... do it too early.. or the wrong time of the day and you will get a false negative.

How did you accidentally have sex? This is just not possible.

U had unprotected sex so you might be pregnant because this is how reproduction works. We don't know if you are pregnant so you will have to wait and see like smoothy said.

If you're not ready for a kid, then it might be a benefit to you to abstain from sex until you are ready... or at least until both of you are ready to be responsible and stop "accidentally" having sex without any form of birth control.

Gee.. what I meant s that I usually use protectn and told myself I would never hv sex without protection.. bt den we didn't hv cndoms @ da tym and it happen,that why I said it was by "mistake".. if you are a human being ul understand what I minute...

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Gee..what I ment s dat I usually use protectn n told myself I wud never hv sex without protection..bt den we didn't hv cndoms @ da tym n it jst happen,dat y I said it was by "mistake"..if u r a human being ul understand wat I minute...

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Seriously, what is that supposed to mean?
If you want worthwhile advice then type in the best ENGLISH you are capable of.

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Gee..what I ment s dat I usually use protectn n told myself I wud never hv sex without protection..bt den we didn't hv cndoms @ da tym n it jst happen,dat y I said it was by "mistake"..if u r a human being ul understand wat I minute...

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There's no excuse... if you're so worried about getting pregnant then there is no excuse for having sex without protection. You can always say no or stop and at least get condoms... to just have sex and then worry about it afterwards is ridiculous... so then what happens if you get pregnant? Another innocent and unwanted baby in this world... that's just great.

You want to play adult games yet you don't want to act like an adult to do it.


Edit- And Ben is right... that is a mess and very hard to understand.

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Gee..what I ment s dat I usually use protectn n told myself I wud never hv sex without protection..bt den we didn't hv cndoms @ da tym n it jst happen,dat y I said it was by "mistake"..if u r a human being ul understand wat I minute...

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:(. Please don't have children if you can't take the time to write out real words.

Lol u guys are funny.. thought this was a site where I can get solutions to my problem but then you making fun of me instead of helping...

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Gee..what I ment s dat I usually use protectn n told myself I wud never hv sex without protection..bt den we didn't hv cndoms @ da tym n it jst happen,dat y I said it was by "mistake"..if u r a human being ul understand wat I minute...

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Please -- no more texting, or your posts will be removed, per site rules. Please write in English.

I am a human being and do not understand how someone has "accidental" sex.

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lol u guys are funny..thought this was a site where I can get solutions to my problem but then yall making fun of me instead of helping...

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You got answers... you just don't like them. No that you are talking about solutions to your problems, I gave you those as well. Don't have sex until you can be responsible... there is a solution.

And nobody is making fun of you that you know of.

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lol u guys are funny..thought this was a site where I can get solutions to my problem but then yall making fun of me instead of helping...

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We can't help you if we can't read your post. No one accidentally has unprotected sex in the way you described. What you meant to say was things got out of control and you didn't take the time to use protection. Yes, you could be pregnant. You'll have to wait to see if you get your period.

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lol u guys are funny..thought this was a site where I can get solutions to my problem but then yall making fun of me instead of helping...

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They are actually being nice and letting you know about the site rules before one of the moderators (myself, for example) gives you an infraction for chat speak.

About your 'problem', all you can do now is play the waiting game. It sounds like it is too late for Plan B (the morning after pill) and too early for testing.

A test at a doctor's office might be able to give an accurate result, but for home pregnancy tests you need to wait at least two weeks after the expected start date of your next period. Even then some women are four months pregnant before they get an accurate test result.

I highly suggest a visit to your gynecologist/doctor to discuss other birth control options that may work better for you than condoms. Though you do need to remember that no form of contraceptive or birth control short of keeping your clothes on is one hundred percent effective.

If you aren't ready to be a mother, consider that Nature may have other ideas if you give her a chance to have any say.