Hey so I am 17 and she is 16. And we are 5 months togheter, I had one sex girlfriend before her. But she has different past, she had sex from 14 to her 16 with 4 guys, 2 were boyfriend, 1 was one night and 1 was friend. Now we love each other so much we are addicted to each other. She says that I totally changed her.. but her past is pain for me, I just can't accept it.. its so painful. What can I do ;(

If you can't accept it, then move on. It's that simple.

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Originally Posted by teacherjenn4

If you can't accept it, then move on. It's that simple.

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No its not I love her ;(

Move on if you can't handle her past. Hmmm if she is your second, maybe you will end up with a girl that can't handle your past after you leave her.

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Originally Posted by N0help4u

Move on if you can't handle her past. Hmmm if she is your second, maybe you will end up with a girl that can't handle your past after you leave her.

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You have to admit that o have "normal" past. But she had really "bad" past

Tell me what you consider normal in a few years and a few girl friends later.

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Originally Posted by N0help4u

Tell me what you consider normal in a few years and a few girl friends later.

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Had sex in 15 and then other girlfriend in 17 is more no normal but usual than sex from 14 nonstop with 4 guys! In year and half. She was a whore..

Did you just call your girlfriend a whore?

So I am the bad?

If you really love her, then her past will not matter. If her past matters, then you do not really love her.

You are young and to be blunt, stupid, your past should not matter, but hers does. How silly.

As you get older the girls will have had perhaps dozens of lovers, and you may also.

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Originally Posted by Fr_Chuck

if you really love her, then her past will not matter. if her past matters, then you do not really love her.

you are young and to be blunt, stupid, your past should not matter, but hers does. how silly.

as you get older the girls will have had perhaps dozens of lovers, and you may also.

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I do love her and I never would break out because of her past, but still it hurts me a lot.