I had anal sex with my boyfriend and I was clear about not wanting to have vaginal intercourse and tearing the hymen or in other words losing my virginity(religious reasons).during sex I noticed blood over the sheets and it wasn't just a drop or two but rather more, and I'm wondering,is it possible that the blood came out of the anus because we didn't use lubricants? Or does it mean that his penis slipped accidentally into the vagina and caused the hymen to tear?

Most likely is was because you failed to use lubricants, the butt doesn't self lubricate... you might have hemroids as well.

Hope you used protection... because the anus is very close to the vagina and its not hard to migrate that very small distance. And it's a very easy path for any STD's to gain entry.

So you're asking if he possibly missed and entered your vagina, causing the hymen to break? How old are you actually? You wouldn't know if he was in your vagina?

I think you are playing games that you aren't ready for.

Im sorry I don't understand what you meant by that, I am 19 years old and it was my first experience, I used protection but the blood confused me and I'm not quite sure what the reason for it was, it was an amount not just a few drops

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Originally Posted by maria266993

Im sorry I don't understand what you meant by that, I am 19 years old and it was my first experience, I used protection but the blood confused me and I'm not quite sure what the reason for it was, it was an amount not just a few drops

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Use a hand mirror and look to see if your hyman is intact... but that assumes yours was actually intact before that... because many women have theirs tear long before then simply playing as children with no sexual activity..

Generally if you had enough tissue damge to bleed a lot... your butt probably would have likely been pretty sore for at least a day or two.

Even with little experience you would have noticed if he slipped into your vagina. Him would have felt that.

Yes, this can happen with anal sex, very dangerous and soft tissue around. Any damage can create anal fissures, causing infections in a place you would not want.