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  • Mar 26, 2007, 11:26 AM
    Indigo Girl
    Is it too long to wait?
    I met Nicholas on the internet, and we dated for two years. We only met, but I swear to god, those days we spent together were perfect beyond words. We are so compatible with each other, and we both love each other deeply. We were best friends, and we talked all the time. We were very happy, but towards the end, we both stopped making an effort, because trust me, two years of msn conversation and phone calls gets a little tiring.
    In January 2007 after 2 years, he broke up with me. He is now dating another girl, and although it makes me sick to my stomach to think of them together, I know that she is temporary, and just fills his empty arms. I'm moving to Canada (Where he lives) this August, and I just don't think I can completely let go of him until I see him, until I can look into his eyes and he tells me that he doesn't want to keep me. If he says he loves me still and wants me, then I will be there for him, if no, then I will move on, and I will never look back. I feel like I'm in the middle of nowhere and now, I don't want to contact him, but at the same time I miss him terribly, and I don't want him to forget our love . I want him to know Im there and I love him, and that he loves me.
    Please tell me what to do to get him back.
    I honestly believe that when he sees me this August, he will want me back, he will want us back, I honestly do, but I am scared with the waiting period.

    Any inspirational notes!
  • Mar 26, 2007, 11:40 AM
    Lowtax4eva
    Well, maybe a little more info would help, are you going to Canada only to see him? And how can you afford to live in another country where you can't work? Or did you mean go there for a vacation?

    I think if he is single when you arrive maybe he would want to date but you never mentionned why the breakup happened so it would be hard to tell. But he's with someone and you don't know for sure its not serious, they might be happy together (sorry) and he may not want to dump her when you get there.

    It really comes down to why the breakup happened, if he couldn't handle the distance then yes, maybe he will want to try and make this work. If it was due to arguments etc then maybe not.
  • Mar 26, 2007, 11:43 AM
    Indigo Girl
    You're right. No we're moving to canada, me and my whole family. To live there, you know? The break up happened because he said it was too hard, that the "spark" was fading, but he said he wanted to fix it, but I think he just got too scared and ended it all.
    I think you are right about what could happen when we see each other, thank you...

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