I am 38 she is 49 we have been together for 11 years and we have been going down hill for about 5 yrs OK it's got worse since we got back in her grand kids life OK here's the deal I got hurt at work in feb of this year so I got more time on my hands she told me it was pay back for no sex because I was spending too much time with the kids all I do is play the wi with the kids or swim in the pool I don't drink smoke or go anywhere all she has been doing is complaining about everything I do I cook clean so all the housework she works part time I can't do nothing right the grand kids were shoved on me now I adopted like they were my own now all I get is complaining I am ready to call it quits I was working 90 hrs a week and still made time for her and grand kids but that wasn't enough for her what am I doing wrong if anything please help. >Email address removed per site rules.<