My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 3 years.But I have never been completely happy or satisfied. He loves me more then I love him for sure. I've broken up w/ him at least 5 times. But we keep getting back together because he is so persistent, I start feeling lonely, and I just feel so bad for him(he's like a little lost puppy w/ out me). I'm sure he knows somewhat what I'm feeling because I said to him in much nicer words. And on top of all this he has gained some weight and is looking unattractive to me.now my question I want to stay w/ him because somebody that loves me so much is hard to find. But I want to tell him what I'm feeling straight out I don't want to sugar coat it so he can really understand.do you think that's a good move? Or is there a different way to approach the situation?

Ask yourself... is it fair on him??

Truth is that love is hard to find, but you don't love him. By keeping him around you are robbing him of the chance to findings someone who truly loves him. I know that it makes sense to keep someone who really loves you, but it is selfish to keep him for that reason only please rate this answer