I am 40 yrs old been married for 19yrs had seven children and lost them all to the state I love my husband but I cannot stand sex anymore and it is really bugging me.

Why did you lose your children?

Is it because you might subconsciously be tying the sex, birth and losing your kids to the state or fear of pregnancy? Have you gotten your tubes tied?

I don't know what would have been the cause of all seven of your children being removed from your care, but, why is sex so important, considering what the consequences have already been?

I can see you asking about questions relating to getting the help you need to have your children returned to you, or how to go about finding them, or contacting them, or wishing some sort of communication. But, to post on sex, is simply not enough.

What is the problem here. Abuse, alcohol, mental health issues, physical disabilities, lack of education, drugs?

Surely your problems are better stated with more information on what is going on with you than just the lack of a sex drive.

Could it be that your priorities are completely out of whack? Personally speaking if I lost 7 of my children to the state sex wouldn't be the first thing on my mind.

How irresponsible on so many levels. And as a taxpayer I have to ask if you couldn't just stop at 3 kids? You had to have 7 that we have to pay for?

Oliver beat me to it - what lives under a bridge?

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Originally Posted by JudyKayTee

Oliver beat me to it - what lives under a bridge?

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Might you be speaking about a TROLL??

Why would you want sex with everything that is going on? Your body is telling you no for a reason. You have too much on your plate to get a slice of pie.

I just want to say, until the OP comes back and tells us why her children were lost to the state, we shouldn't assume it was something she did. It could have been an abuse situation, or something else out of her control.

Just saying. I do know people, actually we all know one that we all love and respect, on this site (I won't mention her name) that lost her kids because of the marital situation she was in, an abusive situation. She was too afraid to leave. It happens.

Agreed, that is why I don't get all up into that bad parent stuff. 2 of my 4 were taken off me, mainly because the workers are college kids that want to play God and they get paid GOOD for taking your kids off you.

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Originally Posted by N0help4u

Agreed, that is why I don't get all up into that bad parent stuff. 2 of my 4 were taken off me, mainly because the workers are college kids that want to play God and they get paid GOOD for taking your kids off you.

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So they took your kids with no actual basis for removing them?

My sons had issues, but it wasn't really enough that they should have removed them. The workers lied constantly. I think they didn't like me because I questioned them on things like why do they not show up for the home visits and probably claim they did so they could get paid anyway. I asked them why when they did show up for home visits they discussed other kids cases with each other that are suppose to be confidential, instead of working on the plans they were suppose to be for my family.

I will say this, CPS can be about as vile and hateful group that I ever saw. I had trouble with them, when I protected my property against a street gang some years ago, and actually had to use force against some "minor children" now the minor child was 6 foot tall, but that did not matter.

If I did not have the money for a very good attorney, and had the local sheriff office not known me well, I am not sure what may have happened.

It took me about 10,000 and a year to get them to close the case and file that there was no cause for the action.