After a heated argument my boyfriend told me "enough" we need both to rest.
My boyfriend and I have been in a long distance relationship for 9 months now, we both know we love each other so much and both willing to work for the relationship no matter what. We argue about petty things but we always make to resolve it before the day ends but also I tried breaking up with him as my defense mechanism sometimes when I get really upset and never agrees to it. He always say cool off from relationship doesn't work for him.
I must admit I'm a jealous type of person. I trust my boyfriend until the issue of him hiring secretaries whom I've never seen before, which he claims are new friends of his brother but these two women now live in their townhouse. I got paranoid, I questioned him a lot, I doubted his explanations, I keep bringing up the issue because it bothers me. The thought of him sharing the same house with these women and his brother is driving me nuts no matter how he explains that these are his brother's friends and they only work for their company. I broke up with him, we became okay but I'm still hurt.
I instigated the fight again. He explained things but there were some inconsistencies. He even asked permission one time that he'll be going out with his brother and these two girls to have dinner and movie but really means nothing. He always says he really love me that much and he's working his *** off so we could be together sooner, and that I am part all of his future plans. He begged me not to do the break up and suggested solutions to the extent of seeking help and counseling from a psychologist or psychiatrist for both of us and reassured me that I'm his only one he can't cheat on me but my mind was closed until we end up arguing again and he finally agreed and he said enough he's being hurt too much and lost his patience with me.
He said we have to rest from the relationship that I'm getting jealous over nothing, I'm malicious and paranoid. I tried to win him back but gave me ultimatum that we will not communicate for 1 month. He will only talk to me after a month and this time it would be his rule. He said if ever he learns, I'm not eating or jeopardizing my health because he knew I lost 2 kgs in no time and I've been depressed, he would prolong the 1 month period for another week and if I text him he would extend 1 day for each text and I agreed to it because obviously I want him back. He said he is too pressured at work as well and he needs to rest.
What does this mean? I need your opinion.
