Okay, so I stopped talking to my ex in mid May. We had not talked at all up until 2 weeks ago. I was fine up until she snapchatted me. I've been snapchatting her for about 2 weeks and I was thinking if I should wait a little longer to text her? When would be a good time to ask her to hang out? Should I? If not to go out again, just to be friends.

PS she's the one that broke up with me.

Leave her alone a start with a fresh clean slate with someone else. Why get dumped twice by the same person, or go back to a rerun of the same thing.

Talaniman Rule - Never chase an ex that has dumped you.

You know what you should do better than we do. We won't know how you will react if she rejects your efforts. We don't know the reasons you broke it off in the first place. Based on those things I can only recommend what I would do. And that is I have a strong belief never to go backwards.

I would not go there again.Why did she break up with you?

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Originally Posted by Homegirl 50

I would not go there again.Why did she break up with you?

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She was going through personal stuff and she didn't want to be in a relationship.

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Originally Posted by laceup

She was going through personal stuff and she didn't wanna be in a relationship.

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Is her personal stuff resolved, has she

Expressed an interest in a relationship? I would leave it alone.

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Originally Posted by laceup

She was going through personal stuff and she didn't wanna be in a relationship.

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So what happens the next time she goes through "personal" stuff? Are you honestly going to accept the fact that she will dump you when life isn't as easy as she wants it to be?

Idk, I mean she was my first love so I want to give it a shot. What if I just want to be friends? Would it be okay to text her? What would you say in her position?

Like kctiger said what happens when she hits the personal stuff again? Couples are suppose to back each other and support each other through rough times.