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  • Jul 22, 2013, 05:36 AM
    mrpines
    How soon can implantation bleeding start?
    Hello,

    I'll begin with the time line of how things occurred.

    July 1st GF started period
    July 5th GF stopped period
    July 6th (2am) we had unprotected sex, did not climax inside of her, but still unprotected. Started up again about 10 minutes later, again no condom, but this time I did not climax. (afraid of leftover sperm from first climax)
    July 14th notices nipples are hard and sensitive
    July 16th - 20th experiences bleeding, not as heavy as a normal period, but still a constant flow for 4 days
    July 22nd I am freaking out.

    Based on the time line and on someone who is not on birth control, usually has a regular cycle and overall mostly healthy. Does this sound like:

    Implantation bleeding
    Ovulation bleeding
    Early period
    Something else

    Thanks!
  • Jul 22, 2013, 07:07 AM
    JudyKayTee
    It doesn't matter what it sounds like, unfortunately. It sounds like maybe yes, maybe no, maybe freaking out.

    You don't need to climax in order to impregnate someone - there is sperm in pre ejaculate.

    The only way to know is to test when a period is 10 days to 2 weeks late, first morning urine. Buy a reliable test, not something from a dollar-type store.

    Or make an appointment for a blood test.

    If you don't want a baby at this point, why are you having unprotected sex? In June you posted your live in dropped you because you cheated on her. You were devastated. Is the possibly pregnant person the same woman... or someone new? https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/relati...ow-752314.html
  • Jul 22, 2013, 07:13 AM
    mrpines
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by JudyKayTee View Post
    It doesn't matter what it sounds like, unfortunately. It sounds like maybe yes, maybe no, maybe freaking out.

    You don't need to climax in order to impregnate someone - there is sperm in pre ejaculate.

    The only way to know is to test when a period is 10 days to 2 weeks late, first morning urine. Buy a reliable test, not something from a dollar-type store.

    Or make an appointment for a blood test.

    If you don't want a baby at this point, why are you having unprotected sex? In June you posted your live in dropped you because you cheated on her. You were devastated. Is the possibly pregnant person the same woman ... or someone new? https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/relati...ow-752314.html

    Thanks for your reply.

    To answer your question:

    To un-complicate things, I said it was my GF. It's actually my, technically, ex-GF. She called me late one night and wanted to see me. We ended up having sex.
  • Jul 22, 2013, 07:17 AM
    JudyKayTee
    Yikes! Aside from pregnancy, now you have to start no contact all over again - ?

    I'd make sure she buys a HPT and uses it.
  • Jul 22, 2013, 07:32 AM
    mrpines
    Yikes is right.

    She isn't really freaking out though.

    She believes she's fine. But me being the worrier I am, I am the one freaking out.

    I've already told her that a HPT should used to make sure. With the obvious stress that she's been going through, her body has felt out of whack.

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