I am 19 years old and I've been dating with a quite a lot of girls and all these relationships been short because I try to have sex with them so early. I can't really help it. I get really turned on real easily even with the smallest kiss. I really don't know what I do. I really want a healthy relationship with a girl but my actions always lead to me trying to have sex with them. I really do try to control myself but my actions always lead up to sex.

What can I do to make the small things not lead to sex? When would be the right time for it? What can I do to control myself? Help please.

Treat them like your sister or your best friend and do not try to hold their hand or kiss them. Get control of yourself

Maybe it's your choice in females. They don't seem to say no.

Some don't but still its to the point where females think that I am using them and Its hard to keep a relationship with that situation

What happens when they say no?

Usually I just say OK then we kiss then my actions get crazy again but I usually don't do anything I'm not the forcing kind of person

Your one liners yield no information except you are out of control and may need professional help.

Given you think it's a problem, then find a therapist, or keep getting all the sex you want from these very pliant it seem females. Generally being constantly rebuffed makes one think of what they are doing wrong.

It is called immaturity and thinking only about yourself. You will never build a meaningful relationship that way.

No, Oliver, it's called thinking with one head instead of two.

"usually I just say ok then we kiss then my actions get crazy again but I usually dnt do anything im not the forcing kind of person" - "crazy actions" often are grounds for arrest. This would finish the relationship for me!

EDIT: You had a steady girlfriend in January and thought she was pregnant. What changed since then?

And clearly he is more about pleasing himself than he is about pleasing his partner. Sad really - the victim is used so he can smile. Not the kind of partner I will ever want. Hopefully the victims have more self respect than to give in to that.

Suggested reading material - his other threads.

I was in one abusive relationship - he never thought he was abusive but, yes, self admittedly sometimes he "got a little crazy" - like when I didn't do exactly what he wanted me to do, when he wanted me to do it.