So here's the thing... I have met a 41 year old woman and on the second date we got it on with fingers and thumbs etc. 3 times in the car and 4 at her place I made her orgasm while we made out. So that is all great and I am pleased the chemistry is great but a) she is coming really quickly (30 secs to 2 mins) and no she isn't faking it. B) she laughs out loudly once the orgasm hits - every time.

It's the first time I've come across a "laugher" and it seems quite strange. Is this common and advice on prolonging her orgasm time would be great? I'm quite experienced but never met anyone so quick to orgasm and the laughing, my neighbours now think I must be really funny ;)

Hello:

I think she's fine, but thumbs?? What do you do with them?

excon

I really can't see why you would have an issue with this... I'd be all over that.

Ask or comment in a light hearted way like maybe "I see I make you laugh or is that a reflex?" and then laugh with her.

To your other part possibly she hasn't been with a guy in awhile or she is capable of multiple

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Originally Posted by excon

Hello:

I think she's fine, but thumbs??? What do you do with them?

excon

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Oh come on exxy, don't you know?!

I think that is WONDERFUL, a happy orgasm !

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Originally Posted by tickle

Oh come on exxy, don't you know ?????!!!!

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Gee I am so surprised by ex's answer... he is an expert on everything else.

The laughing could also be because she is very sensitive down there.

Infinite variety, right?
Something new every day.
Maybe intercourse will delay her orgasms, maybe you are just fantastic with fingers and thumbs, who knows.
It's funny how we go online to discuss our sex lives with strangers, but not with our partners.
I'm sure as you two get intimate (in the old fashioned sense of getting to know each other), you will learn a lot more about her.

Enjoy it... be happy you found someone so easy to make happy and satisfy... and don't try to find anything wrong where nothing is.

As far as laughing... no not common but then of the few dozen women I''ve known that well in my life... no two are alike. And that is actually a good thing.

Picture this... what if she had been the type (for whatever reason) that just laid there limp and didn't make a sound? Or she had been one with such difficulty reaching orgasm it quickly becomes work and not pleasure? Count your blessings.

I wouldn't question a good experience but get a hotel room and get out of the car, and get even more experienced, and see how it goes.

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Originally Posted by excon

Hello:

I think she's fine, but thumbs??? What do you do with them?

excon

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Really? Two fingers inside my lover and using the thumb to stimulate her clitoris is my normal thing...

Hello again, M:

I can't text with my thumbs either..

excon

I am chosing to ignore Excon. Reluctantly, of course.

I'd like to know how you are positive she isn't "faking it". She's 41. How old are you that this is satisfying to her, no intercourse, just "fingers and thumbs."

You must be super stud. Enjoy the experience.

Laughing during orgasm? Hmm.

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Originally Posted by JudyKayTee

I am chosing to ignore Excon. Reluctantly, of course.

I'd like to know how you are positive she isn't "faking it". She's 41. How old are you that this is satisfying to her, no intercourse, just "fingers and thumbs."

You must be super stud. Enjoy the experience.

Laughing during orgasm? Hmm.

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Maybe she is laughing at the absurdity of it?

Right - and probably it's Meg Ryan saying she's been faking it all along - and then demonstrating.