I'm getting my top ear pierced tomorrow and I just want to ne what to expect I have got my tongue pierced'eyebrow pirced and they didn't hurt but I have got a high pain tolarance

No, it does not hurt anyone who can get their tongue pierced without it hurting. Its more the anticipation that sux rather than the pain. I pierced mine with safety pin. Didn't hurt.

The worst 2 parts are:
The part when you worry before you get it
And the aftercare because it may be sore.
But the actual piercing isn't as painful as people make it out to be. Don't stress or have a sleepless might over it, it's not worth it and in the end you'll be OK
Good luck x