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  • Jul 17, 2013, 01:06 AM
    sonam mehathi
    Can a vysya girl marry a yadav boy?
    Hi friends.

    I am facing one problem. I (aarya vysya) want to marry the person belonging to yadav caste. I told this to my parents, but they are not accepting. His parents accepted us. My parents are not even listening to my words. Is there any rule like one have to marry the person belongs to their caste? We are strictly vegetariens. How to convince my parents. Please post the answers soon, I am waiting.
  • Oct 16, 2013, 07:28 AM
    yadav119
    Hi hello,

    Whatever the caste may be intercaste marriages are always good. By intercaste marriages, the future children will be born with new genes having high resistance power and high intellectual powers. Scientifically intercaste, inter religion, inter country marriages are very good and successful.

    There is no rule that the person has to marry from the same caste.For our elders comfort , parents always inisist to marry from same community. Because they don't want to take risks by marrying other community people. Becauses cultures are different and they are afraid weather the newly married couple can adjust with each other or not.

    If you really love that person and have confidence that you can be able to live with him life long by facing small obstacles (normally every couple face some household quarrels\), I advice you to go and marry him.
  • Oct 16, 2013, 07:51 AM
    talaniman
    You make a choice to do what you want, or do as you are told. YOUR choice.

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