I want to know the conditions in which suiside is not haram??

Our Muslim members are not online right now. I did find this --

"There are a few quite specific sanctions expressed in the Quraan against self-killing. The Prophet Muhammad (SAW) also assigns suicide to the lower levels of Hell. Allah says explicitly in the Quraan, "And do not kill yourselves. Surely, Allah is Most Merciful to you". (Surah An-Nisa Verse 29). In another verse of the Quraan, Allah says: "And do not throw yourselves in destruction". (Surah Al-Baqarah Verse 195)."

And later --

"If one is thinking of committing suicide he should think about his friends and family, then he should turn to Allah and ask for his help. Talking to the Scholars and others would also help. Confidential information is also available through your GP. Many centres also offer help for people in these troubled times.

May Allah save us from this sin and give us all guidance to the straight path. May Allah save us from all types of grief and give us all entrance into Paradise."

Please read all of this, especially the last sections --

Suicide as seen in Islam

But if there is something wrong happened with you and you are unable to share this to your family, specially your parents and you know that they can't bear it.

Would they bear news of suicide and always questioning why any easier? People tend to blame themselves when someone kills themselves, especially their own kid.

If any thing happened wrong with any girl then what she will do?? I don't want to cheat anyone... I can't marry any one... not even I cheated anyone in my entire life.. I m just a burden on my family and my sisiters.. I m daily feel guilty because I think how I shall kill myself... I love someone who cheated me.. and not he just broke my heart only he broke me and my soul... no one will trust me that it was an accidient I would'nt allow him to touch me... but I was unable to stop him... he didn't rape me but it was something like that...

Yes I know that news hurt them... that's y I'm thinking to attempt a suiside in a way that eveyone thought that is an accidient.. I m sick of my life

What are you dealing with that is so unbearable? There are solutions, maybe we can help find them

I have a last chance to talk to his mother, but I never met her before... I don't know she believes me or not... I m just worry that if she told the whole story to my family.. my parents start hating myself... nothing is left in my life... no on is there to whom I share my problems...

I never talk to any one about this.. I feel I lost my virganity.. even that's not my fault but there is not anotherway... and I want to kill myself and some times I also wish to kill him... why GOD don't protect me that day ;(

Who will believe me that was an accidient even he committed that he will marry me... but day by day he becomes rude with me and know he wish that I will marry another man... I don't know what I will do... I just cried daily even I stop eating,drinking,sleeping... my life is comletely destroyed and disturbed... he said that he has a family problems but I'm also his responsibility...

You trusted a man who forced himself on you, sort of, not quite rape?
Sometimes yes the line is blurred.
If you are young and naïve and this man talked and talked and made you believe he loved you, and you were enjoying it, and suddenly he was all over you and on top of you and you said no, that is rape.
Tell us more. We are total strangers.

Any one who can help me please text me

I would start by telling my mom that this guy promised to marry me. Can you at least start with that?

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Originally Posted by joypulv

You trusted a man who forced himself on you, sort of, not quite rape?
Sometimes yes the line is blurred.
If you are young and naive and this man talked and talked and made you believe he loved you, and you were enjoying it, and suddenly he was all over you and on top of you and you said no, that is rape.
Tell us more. We are total strangers.

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From what I understand of her
Virginity she has to be put to death so the family does not lose face

Obviously she is afraid to tell anyone for that very reason, shame on her and her whole family, whether they just put her in a back room or throw her out on the street.
You should charge him with RAPE in your culture, for forcing himself on you!
And promising to marry you!

Sad her culture doesn't see it that way

What will I do... I'm living with a guilt from last three years... I can't sleep well.. y God said in Quran that men and women are equal while he don't even made them equal... I lost everything but he lost nothing... I cried whole night... always pray for justise... but God don't listen to me

There is not another way for me... I m in search of poison.. I asked some of my friends to provide me but they refused and asked me the reason... I can't tell them the bitter truth of my life
... is there any way through which I got my varganity back...

Maybe it is a secret that you must keep and never be with a man that can tell on you. Would that work?

What country are you in?