If a wife has a one night stand, comes home and yells at husband for being snoopy then in anger has sex with the man right in front of you, how would you handle it?

Say to the other guy right in front of her "I hate dumping my problems on other's, but she's all yours!"

Assuming husband is completely innocent in everything which is rarely the case, she would be an ex-wife before it came to that.

Silly question, the husband would not have been in room to watch it, he would have had other man leave, or have just left, he would not be there to watch.

Yes she is definitely trying to tell you she is fed up with someyhing.

I would leave, never return, and let the lawyer serve the divorce paper. That way you don't go to jail for doing something bad to the beeyatch.

The husband is cripled due to a MRSA abcess in his spine causing a vertabra to slip crushing the spinal cord. It takes him a good 15 to 45 minuts to stand on his own feet with a cane or walker, all his legs feel like is pins and needles he still retains the urge for sex however.

She is being downright cruel.

In other circumstabces I would have considered it sexy, but my wife and her old boyfriend did what they did for two reasons, the old boyfriend did it for my humiliation, my wife did it thinking she was going to teach me not to be so snoopy. She was still drunk and now is begging her mother and myself for forgivness. She said if she had not had six margeritas in an hour she would not have done what she did. Myself I think that some of the meds she takes also had a part to play combined with the booze, She takes taramidol, neurotin, seroquel xr, cogentian. I can't divorce her due to her being Bi-polar. State won't allow it.

What? The state won't allow you to get a divorce from her because she's bi-polar? What state is this? Who told you that?

Due to the fact I had to take out a guardianship on her. The only way I can transfer gaurdiaship on her is transfer it to a family member or the state. Her mother will not take the guardianship and niether will the state. I live In a very conservative state that doesn't spend money on mental facilities. We only have two open for the criminaly insane.

You can leave her. Drunk is no excuse. Premeditated drunk is more like it

Talk to a real lawyer, not the state. What state is this?

No one else to take guardianship?

As guardian what all at

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I'm thinking if you can prove yourself as 'incompetent' with a good lawyer.

I can't see how ANY state would lock you into a marriage under any circumstances. So she can cheat on you... steal from you... move out... kick puppies... and the state won't allow you to get a divorce.

Like Tal said, talk to a lawyer.

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No one else to take guardianship?

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No; but she understands she is on a long probation. If another friend shows up from the coast, I will be along no matter who it is, I also said that she has to get tested for STD and if the opertunity arises that I can have some fun I also will take advantage of the situation. Mother in law is here asking me to forgive and not send her home with her. She pulled out a copy of her will giving me total control of all inheritance my wife gets from her when she dies, She also showed me the financial statement for her estate. My father in law died in 1981, he was a lawer leving almost 5 mill to his wife in the thirty one years since her financial advisors turned it into a litle over 85 mill to be split between my wife's sister and my wife. I can be bought but not cheaply. My mother in law was born in the 1920s she is almost ninety tears of age.

Oh, now I see... you don't want to leave because there is a payment at the end of it all... it's not that you can't leave.

Maybe this information earlier in the thread would have been useful so we didn't have to waste our time trying to help you out of this mess.