My ex and I have a 3 month old daughter. She has always been in my custody. I pay for everything she needs including health benefits. Her father has recently started taking her overnight but I am very uneasy about this. She does not have her own room, he has her sleeping in a bassinet by his bed even after I explained its not safe now that she's rolling over, he brought her back in clothing that didn't fit and with diaper rash and he has multiple roommates living with him(some of which had previous drug problems) I ended up providing him with clothes and cream as well as all her bottles of milk as I want her to be breast fed. My main concern is he feels as if he should be able to call the "shots with his daughter." He's supposed to keep her overnight 2 days and take her one day a week for 8 hrs. He shows up when he feels like it and brings her back late all the time. It is starting to affect my life as I have to wait around for him consistently. I had an appointment the other day and he was supposed to pick her up at 11-12 and by 12:20 I still hadn't heard from him so I left the house to go to my appointment and took our daughter. This cause him to go into a rage and say really nasty things am I allowed to keep her if he is late? He gives me no money to support her, we have never been to court and he sees her on average 20% of the time. Do I have any rights?
