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  • Mar 25, 2007, 01:42 PM
    sophie_x
    I'm don't want to lose him
    I’m really worried…because recently I introduced my boyfriend to one of my mates, and now he talks to her more than he does to me. A few days ago I told him we never speak anymore and we got into an argument, I told him how I felt with him flirting with my mate and he said I was being immature. But we both love each other very much but now with my friend in the way I’m getting so paranoid and scared he will cheat on me with her. Please help!

    Sophie x
  • Mar 25, 2007, 04:37 PM
    chuff
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by sophie_x
    But we both love each other very much

    You love him. You can not speak for his emotions.

    If you are having an argument because he speaks to other women the relationship is pretty much done. Even if he's not going to do anything with her the fact that this leads to arguments leads me to conclude the relationship isn't solid and he doesn't seem to want to strengthen it. Be prepared for the end or end it now.
  • Mar 25, 2007, 07:20 PM
    talaniman
    If he is trying to flip it on you then he must have an agenda. He doesn't sound very respectful of your feelings either. I hope you have better friends tan these two.
  • Mar 27, 2007, 05:00 AM
    talaniman
    Quote:

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    Anything constuctive to add? If not..
  • Mar 27, 2007, 05:09 AM
    Krs
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by sophie_x
    I’m really worried…because recently I introduced my boyfriend to one of my mates, and now he talks to her more than he does to me. A few days ago I told him we never speak anymore and we got into an argument, I told him how I felt with him flirting with my mate and he said I was being immature. But we both love each other very much but now with my friend in the way I’m getting so paranoid and scared he will cheat on me with her. Please help!

    sophie x

    If there is flirting going on then yes you have all the right to be upset!
    If he just chatting then its OK, really!

    If you feel that this mate is getting in the way, then don't meet up with her too often!
    I say this from experience where I dealt with girls who were supposed to be MY "friends" but went over board and caused problems between my hubby and I. But the truth is now we (my hubby and I) learn that we shall let no one come between us no matter how hard that person tries because me and my hubby are a team

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