I told a guy I liked him, and he said he liked me back. And he texts me pretty often now. Although, I haven't a clue why he hasn't asked me out yet. Can anyone help me out with this? I'm new to the dating scene/never had a boyfriend, and so is he.

How old are you two?

Maybe he is shy, maybe like to him only means friends, maybe he wants to get a feel for if he likes you more before he jumps into anything more serious. Be friends and let things happen at a slow pace rather than jumping into something you might change your mind on.

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Originally Posted by teacherjenn4

How old are you two?

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14, freshman.

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Maybe he is shy, maybe like to him only means friends, maybe he wants to get a feel for if he likes you more before he jumps into anything more serious. be friends and let things happen at a slow pace rather than jumping into something you might change your mind on.

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I'm pretty sure he knows I mean more than a friend. I asked him in these exact words, "Do you like him as more than friend?". Would he lie?

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Originally Posted by Meggssuper13

14, freshman.

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You guys are both young. Are your parents allowing you to go out on dates?

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You guys are both young. Are your parents allowing you to go out on dates?

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My parents don't seem to mind, however I don't know that his parents condone it... which might just be the reason. Thank you :)

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My parents don't seem to mind, however I don't know that his parents condone it... which might just be the reason. Thank you :)

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Well, you should ask him out and if he says he's not allowed to, then you have your answer. Is this the same guy you spoke about in June?

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Well, you should ask him out and if he says he's not allowed to, then you have your answer. Is this the same guy you spoke about in June?

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Yes it is :)

He texted me, and told me that he like me, but was just too nervous to say so.

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Yes it is :)

He texted me, and told me that he like me, but was just too nervous to say so.

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Sounds like it will all work out if he is texting you.

I had this problem a year ago. Don't wait any longer, just do it yourself.

This is not the 1800's, girls can ask boys out,