Okay, so me and my boyfriend attempted to have sex, but I changed my mind at the last minute. He never went inside me, but when I got off him he said he came. It was his first time as well, which is why it was so sudden. The next day, because I'm obviously paranoid, I took the morning after pill. Which now thinking about it I don't know why I did. About to weeks later I began to spot a dark brown red color for two days, after that it was a light period but the same color, but a little more red. My usual periods are heavy. Plus it was a 5 days early. A week before that I had really tender breast, but as I read those symptoms were normal after taking the Morning after pill. So, I still freak myself out. Is there any chance I could be pregnant?

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No form of birth control is 100%. The morning after pill is no different.

We can't diagnose pregnancy online, but I can tell you that based on what you wrote, pregnancy is possible. Unlikely, but possible.

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So me and my boyfriend wanted to have sex but I wasn't ready to go through with it so I got off him. He NEVE went inside me, he tried but it was our first time so yeah. Once I got off him and laid down he said he came! His penis was AWAY from my vagina! I get so easily freaked that I tooke the morning after pill the very next day. 2 weeks later I spotted for twos days the color was like a brownish red, then after that for maybe 4 days I had a very light period I think, the color started a dark brown and got a little bit more red. A week before my breast were really tender. But I also read that was a symptom to the pill as well as having your perio early which happened to me. But I'm not completely sure that was my period because they are usually heavy. Other than that I have had no symptoms. Except for being sick but that only happens when I think about this. And now I'm having a water discharge. Oh and he was wearing a condom the WHOLE time.

I guess this is a lesson to not let yourself get in this situation in the first place. And keep your clothes on. Until you are ready to have a baby... because you might be one of the females that do end up pregnant the very first time you have a sexual encounter.

If he never got near you with his penis.. why did you have to take a morning after pill? There seems to be a lot missing here.

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I guess this is a lesson to not let yourself get in this situation in the first place. And keep your clothes on. Until you are ready to have a baby...because you might be one of the females that do end up pregnant the very first time you have a sexual encounter.

If he never got near you with his penis..why did you have to take a morning after pill? There seems to be a lot missing here.

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Well I was near it at one point when I was on him but he never went inside me. I decided I wasn't ready before anything happened. As you can tell I just over think things a lot!

So me and my boyfriend wanted to have sex, I was on top of him but I wasn't ready to go through with it so I got off him. He NEVER went inside me, he tried but it was our first time so I guess it was difficult for him? Idk. Once I got off him and laid down he said he came! His penis was AWAY from my vagina! I get so easily freaked that I tooke the morning after pill the very next day. 2 weeks later I spotted for twos days the color was like a brownish red, then after that for maybe 4 days I had a very light period I think, the color started a dark brown and got a little bit more red. A week before my breast were really tender. But I also read that was a symptom to the pill as well as having your perio early which happened to me. But I'm not completely sure that was my period because they are usually heavy. Other than that I have had no symptoms. Except for being sick but that only happens when I think about this. And now I'm having a water discharge. Oh and he was wearing a condom the WHOLE time.

Well... look at it this way.. its impossible to know what was touched before he put the condom on... so there is a remote possibility... the penis is like a leaky garden hose... you don't have to turn it on to get wet. The question is how likely... its rarely impossible... and never impossible if you go that far.

There are no early pregnancy symptoms.. not for several months except missed periods... and its too soon to know if you missed your next one yet.

You have to treat EVERY sexual encounter as the one that might make you pregnant... and you were playing sex games... don't convince yourself you weren't.

Not intending to scare you... just make you see there really is no such thing as safe sex... unless you are both on the phone in separate buildings. Its all about risk management... there is never a zero risk encounter.