I had sex July 2 and July 5 . Both times we were protected and pretty much careful . Though on July 5 at one point my partner touched me with his penis without a condom on the outside of my vagina and I don't know whether he prejaculated or not . And these events were my first time with sexual intercourse and I experienced pain and my partner couldn't go past the tip and at some points force himself to go deeper . So it was more pain than pleasure you can say .Though yesterday night I saw a small amount of blood and I presume it was spotting . Though overnight I had a heavy flow and the cramps kicked in . I think its my period but I'm still very worried and want to consult someone about my situation . Lately I've been under heavy amount of stress due to thid so I don't know if the spotting is due to the stress or because of the friction and him forcing to go deeper . Please help me .

Well... you HAVE to treat a penis like a leaky faucet... there can always be spermatozoa present. And also understand condoms are maybe 80% effective... adn the Pill a little over 90% effective... used together those numebrs are higher... but its still possible to get pregnant using both. We have a Registered nurse its happened two more than once. So its possible.

However its way too soon to test for pregnancy yet... and there are no sysmptoms early into a pregnancy other than a missed period.

So until you are two weeks late for a period testing will be a waste of time and money.

How old are you and your boyfriend?