This has been bothering me for a while. Basically, a few weeks ago I was masturbating in bed via clitoral stimulation. I was laying on my stomach at the time and started to press my face into my pillow to the point where I couldn't breathe well. Eventually I couldn't breathe at all (erotic asphyxiation I believe it's called) I get off this way sometimes because I find that my orgasms are always stronger when I can't breathe and feel on the verge of passing out.

Anyway the orgasm that followed this was so intense that I immediately felt liquid between my legs as I was coming. This sensation has never happened to me before. I mean, sometimes I feel a little "trickle" of wetness during a particularly strong orgasm. But it felt like a lot more than usual. I was so scared and freaked out that I had peed myself, but I found that it didn't smell like anything. And I didn't have an 'urge to pee' before or after this orgasm.

I think I squirted, I'm almost certain but still I can't help wondering what happened. :S What do you think? Can I celebrate my first time squirting, or did I just nearly wet the bed? Lol u_u

Your answer is does it smell like pee? That is how to tell

The same nerves and muscles that contract during an orgasm also contract around the very nearby bladder. I'm betting it was urine.

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Originally Posted by N0help4u

your answer is does it smell like pee? That is how to tell

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True, urine has a distinct smell. I remember that I kept thinking 'did I pee? But I don't smell urine.' I also didn't have an 'urge' to urinate before or after this entire event.

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Originally Posted by Wondergirl

The same nerves and muscles that contract during an orgasm also contract around the very nearby bladder. I'm betting it was urine.

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It didn't smell like urine. It didn't smell at all actually and I never had the urge to 'go' while any of this was happen, nor before or after. I know nearly all women are supposed to be able to squirt. I'm just hoping I did. I've had strong orgasms before wherein I'd feel some sort of liquid "leaving" me... and I knew it wasn't urine. This time felt like one of those times, only my orgasm was much stronger thanks to the breathless factor, only with a lot more fluid. : /

Then it wasn't

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Originally Posted by jodar7

True, urine has a distinct smell.

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No, urine doesn't always have a smell.

And which orifice did it come from?

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Originally Posted by Wondergirl

No, urine doesn't always have a smell.

And which orifice did it come from?

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I don't think she could answer this. It would be impossible to know

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Originally Posted by tickle

I don't think she could answer this. It would be impossible to know

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Her mind was elsewhere.

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Originally Posted by N0help4u

then it wasn't

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Wasn't what?

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Originally Posted by Wondergirl

Her mind was elsewhere.

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Yes, that too

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Originally Posted by Wondergirl

Her mind was elsewhere.

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Pretty much.

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Originally Posted by tickle

I don't think she could answer this. It would be impossible to know

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I wasn't aware that there were different places where a woman urinates and 'squirts' from. I know men ejaculate and urinate from the same place. Is it different for women or something? Anyway, you're pretty much right. I have no way of knowing this. I just know it didn't smell like urine, and I didn't have the urge to pee during any this experience. : /

I'm kind of convinced I did at this point. I guess I just wanted some confirmation in case there's a chance that I'm wrong. (Despite being 23, I don't have much sexual experience at all).

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I wasn't aware that there were different places where a woman urinates and 'squirts' from. I know men ejaculate and urinate from the same place. Is it different for women or something? Anyway, you're pretty much right. I have no way of knowing this. I just know it didn't smell like urine, and I didn't have the urge to pee during any this experience. : /

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You have a urinary system and urinate from one orifice (opening). You have a reproductive system and bleed/deliver babies from that orifice. You have a digestive system and defecate from that orifice.They are very close to each other. Google for illustrations of female anatomy.

A male's two systems (urinary and reproductive) are connected with only one orifice and are "policed" by the prostate gland. A male cannot urinate while he orgasms. (If he does, he needs to see a doctor.) He also has a digestive system and orifice.

Women produce 3 fluids out of the vagina (more of course if disease is present):
- a clear to milky gluey one that can appear anytime, but often mid-cycle (it aids in moving sperm into the uterus)
- a lubricating one that aids in intercourse (the one that KY jelly approximates)
- and a clear thin ejaculate out of tiny glands near the vaginal opening called the Skene's glands. It can squirt or gush or just dribble down. It can be a lot, a little, or none at all. Not many women ever get a lot, and plenty of women claim they never have it. The glands' location can vary a lot, they are extremely tiny, and it seems that a few women don't even have them. They actually open into the urethra, hence many women think they have peed. I don't think many studies have been done about them. The ejaculate is filtered blood plasma, so it is clear. Many women are embarrassed, thinking they have peed, and go to doctors to ask to stop the peeing, so it's possible that there are more women 'ejaculating' than the world realizes.
Strangely enough the Skene's glands are analogous to the prostate.

(As for putting your face in a pillow, I wouldn't call that asphyxiation. But at least it's safe.)

Correction- the fluid doesn't come out of the urethra. The glands are just very close to it.
Also, the correct word is homologous, not analogous, to the prostate. Both produce a fluid of similar composition.

Its pee... and there is no credible medical evidence to back up any other claims.

And its not that uncomon to leak some from the bladder because of the muscles involved.

Right pee doesn't always smell but there are ways to tell the difference. ''And I didn't have an 'urge to pee' before or after this orgasm'' If you pee a lot right before hand and you know your blatter IS empty. And then you still 'pee' enough to drench the bed. Also you say that there is only one orifice but you need to look up the anatomy for there. My guy can tell the difference. I have learned to tell the difference at least 5 different ways. There is more than just the smell. I just mentioned smell for starters.

Smoothy and I have debated this before, a long time ago, and were told by the expert in charge that we are not to think that 'squirting' is credible.

But, this happened to me years ago, and only once ever, I did not have a weak bladder at the time and when it happened it threw me for a loop and it was very confusing and after reading up on unusual occurrences decided that it was not urine; it was just so much liquid and happened so fast directly during an orgasm. I was very embarrassed but definitely curious. I still think it was 'squirting' and I isn't no spring chicken any more and still believe it.

Smoothy, what the heck, how do you know, you are a male for heavens sake but you have your own opinion god knows and you are entitled to it. There are a lot of things that you can't put a scientific label on and this may be one of them.

To say unequivocably that 'its urine' and sign off is a cop out.

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Smoothy and i have debated this before, a long time ago, and were told by the expert in charge that we are not to think that 'squirting' is credible.

But, this happened to me years ago, and only once ever, i did not have a weak bladder at the time and when it happened it threw me for a loop and it was very confusing and after reading up on unusual occurrences decided that it was not urine; it was just so much liquid and happened so fast directly during an orgasm. I was very embarrassed but definitely curious.

Smoothy, what the heck, how do you know, you are a male for heavens sake but you have your own opinion god knows and you are entitled to it. There are a lot of things that you can't put a scientific label on and this may be one of them.

To say unequivocably that 'its urine' and sign off is a cop out.

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How do I know? Because I'm the one that had my face down there.. which is a heck of a lot closer than any heterosexual woman has.

And while I am faithfully married now... I was single once and got around.

And no matter how well hydrated she might be.. there will always be a component of urea in it... and I've got a very accute sense of smell. Besides... when your face is inches away.. you can see which orifice produces what. Something that's dificult at best for any female that can't accomplish what the average canine is famous for.

But... some people get into the gloden shower thing... and if they do more power to them (its just not my thing)... and bladder leakage is very common with women.. particularly after they have had kids or get older.

Nothing to be ashamed of... it happens. Just like letting a fart slip during orgasms.

But like you mentioned... we were told unless on this site there is credible medical evidence of it... it doesn't happen. And personally I'm not closed minded to it if there ever is a real medical study that is credible with a very large sample of subjects that ever proves it definitvely. But like levitation and telepathy... I've got to see proof before I accept it.


People claim they can levitate and are telepathic... its not a cop out if I say they are full of it... when they can't prove it.

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Right pee doesn't always smell but there are ways to tell the difference.

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And those ways are what?

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''And I didn't have an 'urge to pee' before or after this orgasm'' If you pee a lot right before hand and you know your blatter IS empty.

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But the bladder doesn't stay empty. During masturbation, urine enters the bladder.

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Also you say that there is only one orifice but you need to look up the anatomy for there.

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Three openings for women and only two for men.

From everything I have heard through the years it only must happen with a small percentage of woman. Then it only happens to me when I haven't had sex for at least a couple weeks and the fluid seems to build up. The more sex you have the less the fluid gets to build up if it happens to you at all. Then I guess it still doesn't in some women.I take vitamin B which makes my pee a distinct color and odor. Just to name a couple more ways I can tell. Just because it doesn't happen to some women they want to be in denial.

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And those ways are what?

But the bladder doesn't stay empty. During masturbation, urine enters the bladder.

Three openings for women and only two for men.

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1. So the bladder will build up to where you pee enough to drench a beach towel or more in that amount of time AFTER you just emptied your bladder?

2. I meant women have 2 in the front wasn't including the 3rd.