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  • Jul 2, 2013, 05:59 PM
    weezie4u2c
    How do I get my boyfriend to watch porn with me?
    I am a woman who likes to watch porn, but don't like watching it by myself. How do I get my boyfriend to watch it with me?
  • Jul 3, 2013, 01:41 AM
    tickle
    I can't see where it would be a problem getting him to watch porn with you. Sit him in front of the TV and put it on.
  • Jul 3, 2013, 02:12 AM
    joypulv
    If you have tried and he won't, why do you think there is some way to 'make' him want to?
    We are adults - we don't make each other do anything.
    Entice, maybe. You are the only one here who knows what turns him on.

    As for porn specifically, I'm probably typical of many women in that I find it excruciatingly boring. A good movie with sex in it that isn't the main and only plot is far more exciting. And a good book even more so! Maybe he has a feminine side. You are both just opposite sides of the coin.
    My nerdy ex used to turn me on just by doing some feat of nerdly genius. Each to their own. What turns him on? Have you ever asked? Time for negotiations - you do what he likes, then he watches some porn next time.
  • Jul 3, 2013, 02:22 AM
    Fr_Chuck
    What have you tried so far ? What type of porn is it,

    But most men will just watch it if it is on. Some do not like it

    Most are poor quality, and some just silly. Depends on what a person is wanting.

    You should not be having sex with him, if you can not sit and talk about what he likes, and what he maynot like
  • Jul 3, 2013, 06:34 AM
    JudyKayTee
    Another case where threads don't necessarily say the same thing, point in the same direction.

    "I am a woman too and I love watching porn. I just wish my boyfriend would watch it with me. He chooses to watch it by himself."

    BF does watch porn - just not with her. Maybe he feels like it's a competition. I would guess he knows.

    Maybe asking him is the way to get an answer. Just sayin'.
  • Jul 3, 2013, 08:07 PM
    Handyman2007
    Just surprise him one night and drop a DVD in and see what happens? A lot of men are embarrassed to watch with their girlfriends,wives,etc. But you will never know. If he isn't into it, he will let you know and don't turn it into an argument. Talk about it.

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