Hello everyone,
Well me and my boyfriend have been dating for 5 years already. Recently we have been arguing for many things, and most importantly he says that I always get what I want and that I don't try to understand him, nor do I appreciate what he does for me. He may not have all the money in the world and I understand that. I met him in a rough time when he didn't have much so how would I not appreciate all he is doing for me. I understand that sometimes I do want many things and get it but other times he buys them because he knows I will like it.
But the problem is later on he puts it out in my face that I always get what I want. So were going to the mountains and I had told him I was going to look for 3 that I most liked. The prices are not that high and they would be in the range of 200-260' per night but were going with another pair. So I told him which one I had chosen and he started saying I don't appreciate him for what he is giving me and that I don't think of him, and everything that is needed to be paid other than the mountains, and why I did not look for a cheaper one, that supposedly I always have to go for the higher. The lowest one I could was around 195/night and the one I got was 250 or so. He also said that since I don't understand him that he will never take me anywhere else but maybe he said that because he was angry.
I don't know what to do or how I am supposed to appreciate him? I also told him when me and the other pair started talking about the mountains and if he was going to be able to and what days and how long he never mentioned anything about not being able or any price. I don't know what to do or what advice do I need to fix this problem and make him know I care?