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  • Jun 30, 2013, 09:05 PM
    silviatucker19
    Why do I keep thinking about him?
    There is this boy that was in my class when I was in school. I fell in love with him at first then as the year went by I found out it could never be. But now that I can't see him very day, I find myself just wanting to be with him all the time. I have no idea why I can't stand to not be with him, because I know it could never be. Does anyone know why this is?

    Also I am even willing to ride my bike half way across town just to see him.
  • Jul 1, 2013, 03:44 AM
    Fr_Chuck
    Obsession with what you can not have.

    What are your ages, and "love" does not happen unless you are dating. You need to just fight that urge and move on with life
  • Jul 2, 2013, 07:05 AM
    silviatucker19
    My age is 19 and his is18 he will be 19 in oct I turnd 19 in may
  • Jul 2, 2013, 08:44 AM
    N0help4u
    People often make someone they are *obsessed with into their own image of who and how they think the person is. Realize he is just another guy you really do not know anything about
  • Jul 2, 2013, 11:53 PM
    none12345
    Why don't you start a conversation with him?
  • Aug 26, 2013, 03:41 PM
    silviatucker19
    The same boy that I was talking about before he said I was anonnying and evey time I ask to talk he says no and that he is busy. So doesn't that mean he wants nothing to do with me. But if so why is he keeping the things I made him.I made him a paper mach of his name. And I drawed him a pic of odie the dog
  • Aug 26, 2013, 04:02 PM
    talaniman
    He likes the stuff, but doesn't like you. Leave him alone, plain, and simple.

    Sorry.
  • Aug 26, 2013, 05:59 PM
    LULU42
    It will pass its just a crush and in like 10 years your going to look back at this and laugh and think oh I am so glad I didn't end up with that guy because let me tell you the things we find attractive in our teens change a lot a few years down the road and that guy probably won't even have a chance with you in a few years.
  • Aug 27, 2013, 04:36 AM
    Mejayaa
    This guy sounds like kind of a jerk to be honest. You could do much better, take a look around there are plenty of good looking people.Forget about this guy, and find someone who wants you as much as you want them.
  • Aug 29, 2013, 05:34 AM
    silviatucker19
    Thank you that was helpful

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