I was raised from a child-4-years-old by my mother and my stepfather (my biological father abandoned us). I never took on the last name of my stepfather, who died when I was 43-years-old. My mom and sibling just received monies from an abestos lawsuit, but I didn't receive any monies because the attorney told my mom I was not his legally adopted child, even though he raised me a child. Is this true?