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  • Jun 29, 2013, 10:33 AM
    HatedDL
    I'm sick of hiding it.
    I'm a DL, partly a TB too. If you think that that's so unusual that you have to tell me that I'm weird or crazy then don't even bother. If you don't know what a DL is it stands for diaper lover... I'm not getting into details about it now so if you want to look it up, please keep an open mind.
    Anyway, my mom sort of knows about it, my brother doesn't but I'm sick of every day acting like its some secret. I can't trust my mom because she wants to stop this 'fascination' as she says, while not even allowing me to look more into it because apparently on every corner of the ing Internet there's a pedophile that can get your information through a simple Google search... which is bull because she doesn't care about my brother going on Facebook and using social sites. My brother would be an and make fun of me for it if he knew and so would any of my friends.
    All I'm asking is how do I make them understand that I just want someone to confide in about this. I can't take this guilty feeling like I'm a terrible person for wanting something as meaningless as wanting to wear diapers...
    (Sorry if it sounds like I'm ranting... )
  • Jun 29, 2013, 10:50 AM
    joypulv
    What's a TB?
    Come on, do you really expect parents to understand? Parents have a hard enough time accepting the least little difference from the norm. The nice ones say 'But I don't want you to suffer from scorn and shunning and loneliness, and even getting beat up.' The mean ones are horrified that you might dare suggest that they weren't capable of raising a 'normal' child, so they consider it an assault on them, and they beat you up.
    If you want to try, you should at least have a sense of how understanding your mother will be first. I'm not so sure I would bother unless you SEE that she is tolerant of all sorts of people already.
    How old are you? When you are out from under the roof paid for by parents, you can walk around the house wearing nothing but. Til then, you keep a lid on it.

    There was a mother from England here last month, whose 13 year old son wanted to wear 'nappies' and she was upset. That's British for diapers. Do a search and you might find the thread.

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