I am 22. I have this guy who have been talking to me since I was 14 yrs. Old but I felt like I was too young at that time so we went on a different way. We got in touch when I was 19 he was still trying to get with me trying to convince me why I keep running from something so real and he said “I know you love me “for some reason I got mad because he was able to read me. He could have seen that I love him but I was in a relationship at that time. I loved my boyfriend but that didn’t prevent me from having a little thing for him since he was my first crush, so we stop talking not completely just saying hi on Facebook once a while.
My boyfriend and I broke up. I never told him because I thought he might be in a relationship so I didn’t look back. Until one of his old friends were telling how he used to talk about me. Then I was shocked and felt bad. I texted him hi on Facebook. Ever since we became like SpongeBob and Patrick. Then he started telling me what happened to him over the years we were not close. He has two kids by being stupid but he love his kids. He started to tell me we can make it after all and I realize that I was still in love with him. But I told him I can’t date him cause of all the drama I might have to face along the way with the kids and baby mama.
He said he got my back, plus the kids, and baby mama is outside of the country. So it took me a while to decide but I managed to close my eyes on everything I might have to face and go with my heart. God I never felt so loved in my entire life he is a sweetheart, he is caring, loving person he told me everything, even his phone password, email, Facebook. Guys most likely would make a big deal out of it. We were planning on getting engaged, finding a place get married. We love each other more than a lot. Everything seems so natural between us.
I was so happy with him till his ex called and she is pregnant and making propositions and stuff so he can go back with her. So he wants to be responsible for his act. I don’t know their plan but he told me he loves me too much to try to keep me around. He said don’t want me to wait on him, and focus on finishing school. He knows I’m not the type of girl who’s going to just jump into relationship like that so I told him to do what seems wise to him. I didn’t want to make any opinion on the situation cause it’s between the two of them.
My question is should I stop talking to him completely or stay friends??
