I'm 18 years old. I had unprotected sex with my boyfriend like 3 weeks ago. He told me not to worry cause he didn't ejaculate inside. So, I didn't take any pills. Now I'm worried if I'm getting pregnant. I made a mistake. Please help if there's anything I could do to avoid pregnancy.

The way to avoid pregnancy is not believe partners who claim they didn't ejaculate. Even if he didn't, there are early fluids released that contain sperm.

There is nothing you can do now to avoid pregnancy (and please don't do this again).

If you miss your next period, wait two weeks and take a home pregnancy test.

If you are going to have sex, use at least two forms of birth control. Even then, you are tempting fate.

So there's a chance I'm getting pregnant.

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Originally Posted by Mercie

So there's a chance I'm getting pregnant.

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With unprotected sex, your chances are at least 50-50. Now you have to wait.

(Did you learn something from this experience?)

It was my first time too... so yeah I learnt it's wrong. If I get my period, does it mean I'm not pregnant?

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Originally Posted by Mercie

It was my first time too...so yeah I learnt it's wrong. If I get my period, does it mean I'm not pregnant?

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Probably. I'd wait for a second period the next month to say I'm safe.

Any time you have sex, even with protection, even if the boy didn't ejaculate, pregnancy is possible.

Now you wait and see, and hope and pray, and hopefully, if you dodge a bullet this time, you learn from it.

If he did not finish inside of you, YOU should know, he should not have to tell you. He would have ejaculated fluid somewhere, on the sheet, on you, somewhere. So when you finished were was the fluid ?

But even if he did not finish inside, ( and he is stupid telling you it was ok) you can still get pregnant from the early fluids, so yes there is a chance of pregnancy.

No way to test until you miss a period and wait 2 weeks after the missed period.

Condoms help a lot but they have a 3 to 18 percent chance of failure, so it is still possible to get pregnant using just those.

The "morning after pill" has side effects and should only be used in emergency.