I'm 18 years old and I am paired with a 23 years old guy from past 3 years
He is crazy for me and loves me a lot. But I don't love him as much as he does. Since there is a age gap between us I don't get along him in many ways.
Few days back I met a guy. He started liking me. So he used to cal and text me. We went out twice and I really enjoyed his company. But he is a flirt. He told me this but has promised to change for me. Yesterday he approached me and I asked for some time.
I really like this guy. I don't what to do? Please help!

You at least break up with the other guy if you don't care for him that much and you don't get along. Then, with a clear head, you can decide what to do from there.

When you were 15 and the boy was 20, that is the age issue, now, that is really a normal age difference, what is the real issue with boyfriend?

But it is simple, you break up with boyfriend and start dating new boy,

I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for 5 years recently, I am now 19, and he is 26 years old, I know that is a lot of age difference but when we met that didn't matter. I am not going to lie and I know you have already experienced it numerous of times where you meet other younger guys and you feel attractive to them and maybe even them to you, you may have even thought of leaving him for another guy, I have, but I have also thought about it seriously and questioned myself if that's what I really want, will it be a mistake later on for me, is it worth it, remember communication and respect is what holds a strong relationship. I would recommend you think of that new guys qualities and likes and dislikes and weigh them with your partner, that will give you the answer, hopefully!

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when you were 15 and the boy was 20, that is the age issue, now, that is really a normal age difference, what is the real issue with boyfriend?

But it is simple, you break up with boyfriend and start dating new boy,

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I feel like that new guy is nt serious about me at al. I don't want to regret! :-( I don't know wt 2 do. M gng mad!

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I feel like dat new guy is nt serious abt me at al. I dnt wana regret! :-( I dnt knw wt 2 do. M jus gng mad!!

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I feel like dat new guy is nt serious abt me at al. I dnt wana regret! :-( I dnt knw wt 2 do. M jus gng mad!!

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Firstly, if you want the new guy, you got to break up with your current boyfriend.

Secondly, it sounds to me that your current boyfriend is your 2nd choice. You only want him if the new guy doesn't want you... essentially, he is your "back up". No one deserves to be treated like that.

You have to make a decision. If you do break it off with your current boyfriend, and it turns out to be a mistake. You will have to live with that. Either way, you at least owe to him to tell him the truth.

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I feel like dat new guy is nt serious abt me at al. I dnt wana regret! :-( I dnt knw wt 2 do. M jus gng mad!!

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I no rite? I mean lik I get what your saying and all that.

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Originally Posted by none12345

Firstly, if you want the new guy, you gotta break up with your current boyfriend.

Secondly, it sounds to me that your current boyfriend is your 2nd choice. You only want him if the new guy doesnt want you....essentially, he is your "back up". No one deserves to be treated like that.

You have to make a decision. If you do break it off with your current boyfriend, and it turns out to be a mistake. You will have to live with that. Either way, you at least owe to him to tell him the truth.

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You are right. Am going to meet him after an hour and tell him everything.