Me and my boyfriend have been dating for 3 months,When he asked me out I knew him as a shy nice guy but now that I get to know him better and better each day he gets more imature and more imature.I don`t know if I should dump him or not cause he emberasses me all the time please help I'm so confused.

Aly:confused:

First of all, the reason why he is more outgoing is because he is more confident now that he does have a girlfriend. Also when people first start to get to know each other it is normal to be shy but once you get to know each other, you become more comfortable and actually be more silly or crazy or whatever way peoples personalities are.

More immature and more each day in what way? Do you have examples can you explain in better detail.

Why does he emberass you or what things does he do that emberass you?

Let us know then your answer will be better when we know more info.

Joe

He should respect you, not embarrass you.

If he's being too immature and you cannot stand it anymore, you'd better have a serious talk with him. If he's willing to listen carefully and try to change his behavior towards you, fine.

If not, then... dump him. :rolleyes: But this should be the last thing to do if anything else works and nothing changes.

Dear joe,
The way my boyfriend emberasses me is he pretendes to make out with himself,he pulls his friends pants down and then all my friends end up looking at me trying to say how stupid he is.So should I dump him or not

Aly:confused:

Definitely... EXTREMELY immature. :rolleyes:

He must be young... How old is he? How old are you?

Dear joe,
The way my boyfriend emberasses me is he pretendes to make out with himself,he pulls his friends pants down and then all my friends end up looking at me trying to say how stupid he is.So should I dump him or not

Aly

Dear kristynn,
I am 12 and he is 11 we are 8 months apart

Aly:)

That is up to you. How old is he? It sounds like he is showing off, trying to have fun. Have you told him how he embarresses you? I think you should tell him and also ask him why he is acting that way and that you do not really like it.

Find out how he reacts to you telling him this. If he agrees and tells you he will stop and he does then what do you think you should do?

If he does not care or tells you he will do it anyway and your not going to be happy with him acting that way, then I would say you need to let him down and let him go and let him know you do not want to be with him anymore.

Good luck no matter what happens. Just remember that whatever you decide it is up to you what makes you happy. This behaviour is not making you happy and he needs to know this. If he already does and he still does it then you need to make a decision.

Joe

Just because you're 12, I'd say that... you're better off without him to embarrass you. What do you think? :)

Still, try and talk to him seriously first...

Dear kristynn,
Thanks for your advice ill call him tomorrow and talk to him and see if he will changei will let you know if he did or not.Thanxz again

Aly:)

Ever since me and my boyfriend have been dating mi friend who I used to like has been acting so nice and weird around me.Do you think he likes me?

Aly:confused:

We don't have enough details to tell you if he likes you or not.

What exactly do you mean by "acting weird" around you?

There is an easy way to find out, ask him. There is no point in being shy.

Dear krisynn,
He acts weird by talking to me more than he used to,saying that I'm his friend,and he is so comforting when I fall or when I'm sad he would ask if I'm OK before my boyfriend does. I hope this is enough information for you.

Aly

If he is your friend --why yes I would assume he likes you. I think your question really is -- does he have the hots for you.My bet is yes --but you will never find out till one or the other of you gets over being shy and says something will you?--Savage

I don't think it means he has the hots for you, though he might. I have a friend ship like this with a male friend and we both get a little like that when one of us meets someone new. We both like to be sure that the other is with someone who is good enough for the other and we both worry that one day we will meet partners who are not happy about our friendship. If he does like you he probably won't tell you if he thinks you are happy with the person you are with.

Don't dwell or speculate on the feelings of another. Take what he said at face value and leave it at that. If your really curious talk to him about it honestly. But know this could change things between you, or clear the air. Do you know how you really feel about him?