I don't know how to ask so I usually text my mom these secretive things but how would I type it because I hate talking about this stuff it embarrasses me. Right now I wear a not padded one that's skinny and I hate them. Help!!

Why do you want a padded bra? How old are you?

Why is this secretive? If you can't ask for something like this from your mom, another female, maybe you aren't ready for one.

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Originally Posted by Wondergirl

Why do you want a padded bra? How old are you?

Why is this secretive? If you can't ask for something like this from your mom, another female, maybe you aren't ready for one.

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I guess it's not secretive but I guess Its more that its think it's kind of awkward to talk about even with my mom. I'm only ten but I'm 5ft 4.

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Originally Posted by Gracie rose

I guess it's not secretive but I guess Its more that its think it's kind of awkward to talk about even with my mom. I'm only ten but I'm 5ft 4.

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I got confused I just want the bigger one.

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Originally Posted by Gracie rose

I got confused I just want the bigger one.

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You mean you want a padded one. So you look bigger.

I'm a mom, my daughter is also 10, and even taller than you. She doesn't need a bra at all, and if she did, she wouldn't need a padded bra.

I'm betting that you don't want to talk to mom about this because you know you don't need a padded bra at your age, and you know she won't agree to get you one. I happen to agree with her.

You'll grow, and when you do, that's when you'll need a bigger bra. Until then, your mom knows what you need, and you don't need to try and look like you have more than you actually have.

Good luck.

I really can't understand a mom not being supportive of their daughter in this. This is just the type of thing you should be able to discuss with your mom openly. And if you can't I wonder about your relationship with your mom.

But what are your reasons for wanting a bigger or padded bra. I understand that girls develop differently and its some girls bud so that the buds stick out. So a padded or molded bra can hide them more effectively. If that's the issue, just show mom how they stick out with your clothes. Of course you might try wearing less tight tops.