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  • Jun 22, 2013, 07:32 PM
    chandru348
    My gal friend hates me?
    For two weeks she is saying I don't like the way you are. I don't like to speak with you.I don't want your relationship, I can be happy without you.

    If I ask the reason she smiles and says simply I'm asking...
  • Jun 22, 2013, 08:37 PM
    Wondergirl
    She obviously wants you to be upset and sad, so instead be positive -- "Cool! That works for me too!" or "I was hoping you would say that!" or "I'm glad we think alike about this!" -- said with a cheery smile. Don't give her any satisfaction that she is upsetting you.
  • Jun 23, 2013, 08:06 AM
    talaniman
    What have you done to the poor girl to upset her so bad?
  • Jun 23, 2013, 09:17 AM
    Homegirl 50
    Sounds like she no longer wants to be your girl friend, give her what she wants and leave her. I would not ask her any other questions. How old are the two of you?
  • Jun 23, 2013, 06:08 PM
    chandru348
    20 and 21

    Quote:
    Originally Posted by talaniman View Post
    What have you done to the poor girl to upset her so bad?
    She was sharing her past I didn't respond well...
  • Jun 23, 2013, 07:51 PM
    talaniman
    Why didn't you react well? Did you share your past as well? How did she react if you did.
  • Jun 23, 2013, 08:41 PM
    Tc123
    Come on now. Out with it. The whole truth. Lil darlin', I can feel for you and I do. But... maybe you two need to communicate further. I am certainly no expert in this area but I have to say that it seems like there definitely needs to be further communication. I know it can be uncomfortable depending upon a few things but try it out. You might be surprised and feel better. Not that I have never played games in my past when I was young especially, but believe me, it's just no good and gets you nowhere fast. It's draining, it's not fun, it's unhealthy,. Give it a go and get back to let us know how it all turned out for you. I'm not only curious but I'm a bit jealous that I can't go back in time and do certain things over. So do it my friend!
  • Jun 23, 2013, 09:07 PM
    chandru348
    Thanks friend for everything... she is not in that stage from noon she is avoiding me...
  • Jun 23, 2013, 09:08 PM
    chandru348
    Quote:
    Originally Posted by talaniman View Post
    Why didn't you react well? Did you share your past as well? How did she react if you did.
    Yup I have shared my past...
  • Jun 23, 2013, 10:02 PM
    talaniman
    I think you leave her alone and maybe she will cool off maybe not. Hope for the best, plan for the worst.

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