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  • Jun 22, 2013, 09:57 AM
    yzyz
    Could I be pregnant or this whole thing is normal?
    Hello,

    I will start by saying that I have had a regular periods for long time, which has an Avg 25 cycle and lasts
    For a week.
    So I've had unprotected sex with my partner on around 5th of June, the day after
    My ovulation as said by the app I track my periods with, we have not gone past
    The Genital rubbing, and there is a slight chance of him having
    Left overs from his ejaculating in oral and foreplay.

    So I was scared and stressed about it and waiting for my next period which was due
    On the 16th of June.

    On 16th of June, I've had brownish spotting, and then nothing at all on the 17th, and then
    Heavy period started on 18th, heavier than my usual periods,
    Which also had some white discharges in it too!
    And then on 19th it started to seem like a normal
    Period to me, and still going as heavy as my regular periods are.

    So my questions are;
    - is it normal that I was expecting the period to be on 16th and it came on 18th?
    - what is the thing that happened on 16th, which I thought was my period, and it stopped the same day, and then I had nothing on 17th?
    - what about the white discharges with the unusual heavy period that came on 18th, is it something to be scared of?

    Overall, are those any pregnancy signs? And is there anything to be worried about?
  • Jun 22, 2013, 10:25 AM
    JudyKayTee
    Any time you have sex you have something to worry about - one of our experts got pregnant twice while using two forms of birth control.

    Have you used a HPT?

    If you know about reproduction you realize that getting your period is the number 1 indicator that you are not pregnant. That having been said why are you worried?
  • Jun 22, 2013, 11:22 AM
    yzyz
    No I haven't.

    And there was no intercourse, that's what I was unaware of that there's still a chance of pregnancy before it actually happened.

    And I've been doing a lot of researching before starting to ask questions, which had a results of saying period doesn't mean no pregnancy, and how can I be sure what I had is period and not implantation bleeding, miscarrying a baby, or so on!

    The brown discharges and then nothing the next day, the white discharges, a heavier period and later than my average cycle, yes I would be worried!

    I thank you for the effort taken to answer my question anyway :)
  • Jun 22, 2013, 11:33 AM
    JudyKayTee
    You've done the research - you don't need intercourse to get pregnant.

    There is no magical Internet way to know if you are pregnant. Buy and use a HPT according to directions. You have played a dangerous game where sex is concerned. Now only time will tell.
  • Jun 22, 2013, 01:15 PM
    yzyz
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by JudyKayTee View Post
    You've done the research - you don't need intercourse to get pregnant.

    There is no magical Internet way to know if you are pregnant. Buy and use a HPT according to directions. You have played a dangerous game where sex is concerned. Now only time will tell.

    Quote:
    So my questions are;
    - is it normal that I was expecting the period to be on 16th and it came on 18th?
    - what is the thing that happened on 16th, which I thought was my period, and it stopped the same day, and then I had nothing on 17th?
    - what about the white discharges with the unusual heavy period that came on 18th, is it something to be scared of?

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    Sounds like my questions got ignored and the " should I be worried " took over the subject...
    I'm not looking for the magical internet way of telling me if I'm pregnant, I'm looking for the magical people who experienced what I'm having and looking forward to know their experience with something that I have never been through...

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