I'm best friends with this guy, and we talk for hours everyday. A lot of my friends are always saying that we would be perfect together, and I always lie and say that I don't like him. I actually really like him, and we tell each other everything, and I know he likes one of my friends, but he sometimes likes more than one person at a time. I feel like we do have chemistry, and plus he's never going to see the person he likes ever again probably, because they don't live close and they're not going to the same high school next year. I am going to his high school next year, and he acts like he likes me and flirts with me a lot. I don't know, this is just really confusing and I'm scared that if I ask him if he might feel awkward and it would end our friendship. Any suggestions or comments?

If you know he likes one of your friends leave him alone. Just because you think he may not see this person again after this school year is no reason to move in on him now. You're what 13/14. Wait till you're at least in high school. Just because a boy flirts with you it doesn't mean he likes you. He likes someone else. I would not tell him anything. These two people are your friends. You don't do that to friends.

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Originally Posted by Homegirl 50

If you know he likes one of your friends leave him alone. Just because you think he may not see this person again after this school year is no reason to move in on him now. You're what 13/14. Wait till you're at least in high school. Just because a boy flirts with you it doesn't mean he likes you. He likes someone else. I would not tell him anything. These two people are your friends. You dont do that to friends.

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Okay thanks, I'll try that. But its so hard talking to him everyday and keeping my feelings about him to myself. I feel like the only way to stop my feelings for him is to stop talking to him, and that would make me miserable.

You talk everyday and have never talked about how you feel about each other? Have you never lead the conversation that way or taken a risk as that's the bottom line is making up your mind to risk the friendship to have more, and he is the only one to give you the information you want.

Not knowing how he feels may hurt, and knowing will hurt too if he doesn't feel like you hope he does. I hope this isn't about your friends goading you toward him, as they're opinion means nothing. So lead those conversations to find out what you really want to know, and go from there.

"Everyone thinks we are a cute couple and I would like to be." Kind of blunt but begs an answer right?

Goodness cute couple. You're not even in high school.

How old are you both? Lets clear that up.

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Originally Posted by talaniman

How old are you both? Lets clear that up.

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We're 14.

When you are old enough to stop playing games A lot of my friends are always saying that we would be perfect together, and I always lie and say that I don't like him. maybe you will be old enough to date. Maybe this guy has been told by your friends that you have said you don't like him. He likes someone else, one of your friends. Let it be.