I know that I am an introvert but my boyfriend being the extrovert he is, always wants to go out in public while I don’t mind staying home. It’s really starting to cause problems in our relationship. Is there a way that we can find balance? How to make it work?

Where do you feel safe and comfortable when you are outside your home?

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Originally Posted by Wondergirl

Where do you feel safe and comfortable when you are outside your home?

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No Where I Always Feel Out Of Place .

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Originally Posted by marisol1997

No Where I Always Feel Out Of Place .

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You don't know what to talk about? You don't think you measure up somehow? You feel intimidated by large groups of people? What about a small group of friends together for a birthday party or just eating out? What about going out to a movie with your boyfriend?

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Originally Posted by Wondergirl

You don't know what to talk about? You don't think you measure up somehow? You feel intimidated by large groups of people? What about a small group of friends together for a birthday party or just eating out? What about going out to a movie with your boyfriend?

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Yes , All Of That.. Lol . We Do Go Some Places Where People Are Like A Park , But He Wants To Be Surrounded By Them , While Im Over There Sitting On A Bench Quietly . I Don't know how To Make Him See That I Really Am An Introvert . I Fear That Its Going To Cause Us To Break Up .

What does he like about you?

He Likes That Im '' Down To Earth '' , Playful , Compassionate .

How are you compassionate if you don't like to be with people?

What is it you want from him when you're out with him?

How long have you been dating and do you two talk about this?

You can't make him see anything. You can talk to him about how you feel. Instead of sitting on a bench alone, do you ever try to talk to people?

3 Months . All The Time But We Can't Seem To Find A Happy Medium .

It could be that you two are just not well suited for each other. That is what the dating period is for, to find out if you are compatible. If you can't find a happy medium it could be you are just not for each other. Time to walk away,

I see that you have only limited options.
A. You do your staying home and accept that he likes going out.
B. You figure a way to get out with him and not let it annoy you so bad. You want to come to a happy medium but all I see is you do not want to get out. So it seems you are the one that needs to do a little giving in.
C. You go your own ways and find someone more compatible to your lifestyle.